Is half of life is spoiled after marriage?
By san_here
@san_here (207)
India
May 21, 2007 12:36am CST
Well,some people thinks like that,
may be seem true,
when we need to cut our happy times with friends,
but in other case isn't your partner makes that half more glittering
wat do u think,
Ithink as a life partner it's our responsibility to make his or her's life more fine
3 responses
@maple_kisses (2156)
• Philippines
21 May 07
Well, all I know is when you're married you'll have to devote almost all of your time to your family, so yup, that's true, you have to cut off some partying and socializing with friends, but life's never spoiled when you one gets married. You're right, life should become more glittery and exciting when you have a lifetime partner to share it with...
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
21 May 07
Well, getting married doesn't mean you *have* to have kids, so that's not totally true.
@maple_kisses (2156)
• Philippines
21 May 07
Well, since you are intent to stay as a full-time wife and never a mother, I give you that. But you see, even if you don't have kids, your husbnad is still your family and your lifetime partner; thus, you should devote time to him but I didn't say you must have zero social life with your friends... God bless...
@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
21 May 07
I used to think how can my friends just forget about me once they get married until it happened to me. I love my husband and my friends but my husband really does fulfill me. I don't even really miss my family or friends when I am with him and we live about a 1000 miles away from them. I think a spouse can fulfill a life with out friends, but I think it is better for the relationship to have friends to do things outside of the family life as well.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
21 May 07
I honestly do not understand this way of thinking. Getting married doesn't end your life, it enhances it. And if your spouse doesn't let you hang out with your friends, then they're really not the kind of person you should be married to anyway. My fiance and I don't "party" or whatever, so that's not an issue for us. And we are never going to have children, so that's not going to be a problem either.
