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i always see people beat around the bush when ever they want somehting to be done and you can even realise that from theit actions ,first they start how are you (the talk in our laguage and in our language it is unusual to start a discussion like this ,but now a days imitating english people are started to talk in this way)immediate you can realise he want something from us and ireally hate that way .it will be better to go straight forward.tell what is the purpose if it is for a good purpose sure we are going to help.