Do u talk to the phone with ur guy/girl everyday?
By huilee
@huilee (1005)
Singapore
May 21, 2007 2:10am CST
I used to talk to my guy quite often...
But recently, it seems that me and my guys have nothing to talk to...
We can be on the phone for quite some time, but both of us will keep quiet and not talk about anything, which is something i cant stand...
Being silent on the phone..
Its weird isnt it?
Yah, i know u are on the phone, but if u dun talk, how will i noe if u are still there?
Right?Its making our love life downslope, i guess i need some help..
To either help me spark up my relationship or what i can do or chat with my guy?
Thank you!=)
4 responses
@sheryl_natividad (154)
• Philippines
21 May 07
i do me and my boyfrend always talk to phone we ask what happen to both of us the whole day. then we talk about our future. how much we love each other.
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@tianyecao (29)
• China
21 May 07
My guys and me do not talk with eachother everyday on the phone.That is not beacause our relationship is not deep enough,but the telephone fee is so high.We are not using the same kinds of telephone service.But we will meet eachother every other day.Everytime we meet ,We have a lot to say.In my opinion,distance is the best medicine of ralationship .You two do not need to talk with each other every day.
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
21 May 07
Well, i guess meeting every day is another problem for me..
We do meet everyday...
But it is until recently that he thinks that by meeting everyday, he has got no time of his own...
Sometimes i think that we stick to each other too much...
We used to be very close, real close, talk about anything...
but nowadays, it seems to slowly fade away...
im afraid...
but i noe he stills loves me, at least he did assured me...
i dunno...
perhaps learning to give him time of his own and having time of my own is good too...
@tianyecao (29)
• China
28 May 07
It is lucky that you can see your boyfriend everyday.These days my boyfriend is very busy.
He often goes on errands these two weeks.I do hope to see him everyday.To see your boyfriend everyday doesn'y means everyday you two talk a lot until you have nothing to say. He also can have his own time.If he want to do something, you do not need to say much,and just stand beside him.You two can study together,reading together,etc.Two persons doing these kinds of things together is better than one doing it lonely.Meeting each other is not a problem.It depends on how you spend your time when staying together.
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@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
22 May 07
I don't have a boyfriend right now, but when I do we usually talk on the phone every night for half an hour to an hour. It is really nice because you get to catch up on each others lives and stuff, and just talk. I really miss having a boyfriend! Lol.
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@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
22 May 07
Well, im sure u will find a good guy soon...
Meanwhile just enjoy ur singlehood ya?
I mean being single can be totally cool and fun too, isnt it?
=)
Hmmm, i guess its the content and everything u guys chat about?
Maybe coz i meet my bf everyday and yet we chat on the phone, thus nothing much to talk about...
@daveisdavid (878)
• Singapore
21 May 07
Yes it can be awkward if both parties remain silence for sometime on the phone. Actually why don't you end the conversation if you think that both of you have nothing to chat about on the phone. Otherwise, you can think of a topic that both of you are interested in and then a conversation will spark in. If you think that you are forcing yourself to talk, it will make you more awkward because it is not natural.
