How to get referrals for mylot

hey man i had that same question in my mind, okey I am thinking in post the link for referrals maybe in a community like myspace or facebook or in a blog but I think I need to find people who want spend some time here, I have to referred to my girl friend and she make me earn some money from him discussions, I don't have much friend that know english and my english is worse but I think I will try to do my best. what do you think do you have some idea about it?