Do you compete with your spuse or others ?

No competition of any sort between us. We both are around the house all the time. I work at my home. She helps me very much in making money. We both love our kids and they too love us very much. She is better in certain fields whereas I too have my 'good' in certain other fields. We never had been in any competitive mood. Certain dislikes both have about the other occurs at times and will be settled soon, some with my 'right's and some with hers. As far as giving is concerned it depends. She is ready to give up certain things and I too am. But there are certain other things both of us stick on. I think I a more selfish than her. The funniest fact is that we both have different thoughts, beliefs and characters which goes totally in opposite directions. But that is the core of the magnetism between us. "opposite poles attracts" I am not joking. It is the fact in real. She too admits that. In fact it is very easy to come into compromise then. I have no competition in myLot as well. Thank you Misheleen.

There is never a competition in my house. I do all the household chores. I tend to my girls since the day I became a mother. I still work and earn on my own. No one is the better person here. Everyone are treated equally. I joined mylot for the sole purpose of stimulating my brain as well as fooling around with my friends, LOL! Competition is only for those who are immature and childish. There is no one I need to compete. All of us here are unique in our own ways and it will be nonsensical to try to compete with anyone here.

Naw..I'm totally not a competetive person when it comes to life things...not with friends and certainly not with my husband since there is no competition there..He wins hands down in certain areas and I win hands down in other areas...we both know it and rather than play silly games like that we work together and mesh our strengths instead of wasting time showing them off or boasting about them etc ya know...As for friends..I have no time for that sort of attitude..I really dont....I have what I have, I've accomplished what I've accomplished and I strive for hwt I strive for ya know...what anyone else is doign with there lives is really none of my business nor my concern if that makes sense...

Hello,misheleen,honestly, I am not the type of person that like to compete with others. I am just happy to be myself,I think to compare and compete with other people will always make you feel hard as there are always many people better than you. I am a low profile person,i do not need to tell other i am better than you even I am,and i do not mind you are better than me.

I think somethings it is good to compete with each other. Like my hubby and and have been changing our diets and losing weight. He's a man and he has way more to lose than I do. So guess what he is always winning. But I do remind him that I am on his heal he better watch out! I think that is normal and healthy. He makes way more money than I do. It's almost a joke what I make but I also only work 2 1/2 hours a day. I do just about everything around the house. He does help and he folds most of our laundry. His idea of cooking is this......Do you want pizza or subway? I can remember him getting in a tiff about putting a frozen pizza in the oven. LOL He knows very little about cooking in a way its a good thing. Because I will make things and he thinks it has taken me hours and it maybe takes me 30 min. He is very slow when he does anything everything he does is slow. Me I am fast fast fast so what will take him an hour take me 30 minutes. So I amaze the crap out of him by how much stuff I can get done.

Being competitive with your spouse or other people only shows lack of self-confidence. If you're sure enough of yourself and of what you can do, then there's no need to prove who's the better person. Just always do the best of what you can do.

me and my boyfriend dont really compete with each other. i clean more around the house that is a fact. my boyfriend makes more money than me. we dont have kids yet. we both have the same drive. i suppose we are a little bit competitive in ways lol

I think that it is not the case of competing. There are few things, which i think that she will be better and in few others i will be better. I wont have any problem in she earning more than me. Anyway, it is just the way of mutual understanding. Unless and until there is no dominance, i think there wont be any problem. Anyway, i am not yet married, but the above said points will be followed after i get married.

I don't compete with anybody. I don't like to. But I will try to perform my duties as better as I can. If somebody does better than me I am not bothered. If we get into competitions we lose the calmness of our mind and get tensed. Anxiety and suspense will imbalance our mind. Inever compete with my wife. We both discuss and take deissions in the house. Very smooth after 31 years of marriage. Thank you.

Never my friend.....I could never ever thought of competing with my hubby. We both have mutual understanding towards eachother for each and every thing we do in our lives now. We have been into a love relationship since last seven years and now finally this year in January we have got married. So, we both feel that we are complementary to eachother, there's never any competitive type of feeling had come between us. I pray to God that it should also never happen in our lives ever, we are happy as we are now :-)

I don't compete with my husband,yes,it maybe true that i have bette income or i should say bigger income than him,but i don't see it as a reason for us to compete.because what is important for me then,is that we understand each other and we have a harmonius relationship each other and to our children.I don't care who earn much or who earn less what is important is we are bothe earning something that is good enough for us to have a better living.Even to our relationship to ur children,we dont compete with each other,we always give time to our children,that is important.having quality time with our children.

I'd like to think that I don't compete with my husband. I'm fortunate that I have a husband who does more housework than I do and who pays for most of the bills. I just feel really insecure sometimes becuase he is more successful at work and he earns more than I do.