brokenheart
By hollowheart
@hollowheart (1572)
India
May 21, 2007 9:23am CST
I am sharing my lifes reality with u. i love to love people and till now whom ever i have tried to give my heart has been to bad and broke it according to their will. I dont blame the girls totally, but then i never have been told where i went wrong. Is it not right to help a person to atleast try and stik the peaces of the broken heart? I have always expected and felt nice when someone picked up the broken pieces of my heart but then broke it more and threw it. Is there anyway i could join the pieces of my broken heart myslf, if till then no one really helps me to get it joined?
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6 responses
@lonely_f16 (2146)
• Philippines
21 May 07
You know what I share the same sentiments with you. I'm tired of people who often breaks my heart. It's really difficult to mend it on your own. Something as difficult as love could be cured through love( the easiest way) but then I'm sure there are other ways. we just have to find a way.
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@shyamjoshi (222)
• India
21 May 07
I agree i don't think we should run around carrying broken hearts.
Visit some new places,Have a walk on the beach,Try to figure out what u did wrong (if u did anything wrong at all).
If u feel u didn't do nething wrong then think they were unworthy & move on(Get Over them).
Remember there are more men/women existing in this world then the number of hair u have on your entire body.
U'll find someone eventually the need is to keep looking
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
22 May 07
Hey thanks...how about getting together as we r all in the same boat. and shyam...never build a wall around u.
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
22 May 07
I guess when relationship starts, its the feelings tt counts...
i guess it takes two to clap...
so i know u wont blame ur partner and yah, u shouldnt be blaming urself too...
afterall, its not ur fault either...
its their loss for losing u..
isnt tt the case?
open up urself...
enjoy ur singlehood meanwhile and dun think too much about it...
loves comes the most when u least expected it...
so yah..
enjoy life...
=)
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@hollowheart (1572)
• India
22 May 07
HEY FRIEND, THANKS FOR SUCH A NICE MESSAGE. u R AS CUTE AS UR AVATAR. :)
@malouasuncion (555)
• Malaysia
22 May 07
Let me share you this quote..
Loving someone is like holding a broken piece of glass, not wanting to give up your hand. And when you finally let go you're free from pain but your hands are empty and bleeding :(
So don't let anyone to mend you broken heart. Try to fix it by yourself hoolowheart.
By the way, I like your avatar ;)
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
22 May 07
indeed a wonderful quote froma wonderful person. Thanks a ton. Indeed its so true. Could i get a few tips to resolve the problem myself as u say.?
@deepti15 (1190)
• India
22 May 07
I think, I mean.... I guess the times have been not right.
See, love is something I cannot define in words, for me it is life,...but then life is even beyond.
I would say those girls do not know what they are missing. I have had a friend, someone of whom you remind me. He faced similar things in life, but he was much more stronger, or atleast I think he was a strong person.
I wish the same strength for you. see, girls can be girls, sometimes very selfish, sometimes just tossing your feelings, sometimes just being unreasonable. That all does not mean that you are wrong.
If a relation does not work, then I think it is the two people who are not geling with each other and You should be thankful to God, you are so lucky. Imagine if any one of those girls, would have been your life partner and then if the relation would have broken, it would have scarred you even more. Be thankful and be happy. Remember someone, somewhere is made for you. It is not filmy, it is something I believe.
Love can be in two forms, either receiving or giving. I think right now you need the first one. Hope you find your love and the peace sooner than you imagine.
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
22 May 07
Wow! u r so great. i really feel u r a true friend. Here is somthing common again i found and that is u also write poems, stories, sher-o-shayari. Wow!
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@s_keenom (33)
• United States
21 May 07
I have always had problems with people breaking my heart. But, then I came to realize that I needed to put a wall to protect myself. But eventually you forget and someone slips in and will knock you off your feet. It is great. My husband did that before we were married and now only 3 years later he is more worried about fishing and hunting then sweeping me off of my feet. He always admitted he liked to do these things but since I moved in with him 6 years aog he is totally a different person. Every now and then I see a spark of the old him. But, like I said it is only every once in a while...
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
22 May 07
Hi, thanks for he support. But dont worry, if there is a bit of tension oin ur married life, i am sure the problems will end soon.
@sheryl_natividad (154)
• Philippines
22 May 07
try to love you self first before you go and find another love. and if loving sumone you have to give your self a break you dnt have to give it all
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