What do u think-when unemployed?
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
India
May 21, 2007 11:56am CST
What thoughts run in your mind, eh when u were unemployed.Have u ever rated yourself and find u to be responsible for the situation? or else simply easing yourself out by waiting for another chance? or Simply blaming the society for your failures. As for as i'm concerned i've landed in a decent job just after finishing my postgraduation without any break at all. So I'm devoid of any such ideas flaring across my mind.
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8 responses
@laurika (4532)
• United States
15 Nov 07
i would never blame society I think it is pretty silly, because they really cannot for that you are unemployed. I am unemployed right now, but since I cannot work, i just really have to wait till things change. And i don't blame anybody for this, it will not resolve anything or find me work, just take energy of me. I am trying to my best at least earn some cash on the internet and learn as much as possible every day.
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
15 Nov 07
Your positive frame of mind, will defintely get you a good job, and as you said we cant blame others for our situation, and we must keep our hope alive,..and it is good that you are trying your best in learning and more over trying to earn online.
If you like to share with me kindly pm to me, as i am very interested.
But the fact is i am very new to this world of online earning.
only from you i must learn.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
when i was unemployed i was feeling depressed. i thought i was doomed and destined to be a burden to my mother's shoulders. but there were also times that i didn't lose hope and i would tell myself that i will surely get a job. ^__^;;
when i'm feeling useless a lot of negative thoughts would run through my mind because i don't like feeling useless in the house. i always want to feel that i am doing something for the family. that's why when i was about to graduate from college i had too much worries and i was so scared. because i didn't know the future for me, how it would be like for me. i can say that i am afraid of responsibilities but i also don't want to be irresponsible. ^__^;; so now i'm just really thankful that i have a job.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
this ^__^ means a smile. but this ^__^;; means a sheepish smile, like I maybe smiling shyly, or i'm embarrassed but still smiling, or i'm feeling stupid but still smiling. it depends on what i'm talking about. if i'm saying that "I slipped on the floor ^__^;;" it means i'm laughing at myself for stupidly slipping on the floor. something like that. ^__^
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
14 Nov 07
O! nice that you have come out of the shackles and good to see that you earn a nice income.
Take care friend:
And BTW, I see almost in all your topics/discussions that You use this symbol ^__^;; what does it mean?
Does it have any real implication on the topic, Coz , when i know, i can understand you topics a lot deeper.
Thank you.
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
15 Nov 07
Thanks pal for educating me.. and nice to see you going strength to strength here in mylot.
@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
• India
17 Nov 07
I can never think of such situation.If we are unemployed,i think it is not good to blame anyone.We are only responsible for this.I think in India it is not so difficult to get any job.Now lot of apportunities are there.If we search it,we will get it.
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
17 Nov 07
yes, i agree with you friend,the opportunities lie in ample here, but we have to make way for ourselves, and chose the best job that suits our capabalities.
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
21 May 07
Dear Magica, my friend,
You give an ear to your mom's advice,and the decision of implementing or leaving it must be in your hands. Why to fit in others frames of ideas. When you do so, the originality in my friend magica will go unrevealed.But be sure that some of the ideas you may receive from others may have come from a different angle and this will ignite a spark on the subject,and will help you in adding colors to the same when you try to implement it. This method i follow, be it online job searching or whatever it is. you can also have a try. God bless you my friend.
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
14 Nov 07
I think I will try to find something to do. Such as earning some extra money at home or finish some of my interests. Or I can spend more time for my family. As long as I can still earn some money even if I am a stay-home mom, that'll be fine for me, too.
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
14 Nov 07
Wow! that's great and you never will get stumped in your life, with this postive frame of mind..
And i am sure that with the ability you have in webdesign ( O! god i envy it..lol:) and you can find lot of way to earn money online.
Take care friend
@jhazie (340)
• Philippines
8 Feb 08
Yes, youless is right! and you can find better job. just try and try you know to gain success. no one can steal your success if you going through. atleast continue thats life :)
@rangics (1334)
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
I can't imagine myself pal if ever I'd be jobless. I also have started working after graduation. If ever that happens, I'm going to make myself useful for the society rather than blaming it all on me. I can still do and offer lots of things if I'm just gonna be positive about the things that happened you know. It's not the end of the world anyway. ;)
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
15 Feb 08
A Good postive frame of mind you have rangics. keep it up.
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@Mwanza1 (345)
• Kenya
31 May 07
People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I personally do not belive in circumstances. The people who get on well in this world are the ones who get up and look for the circumstances they want and if they can't find them they go ahead and make them.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
8 Feb 08
After quitting my job 2 yrs ago I started a business and have been on seasonal job for a year now. Nothing can make me return to full time employment. I have learned that having a lot of money actually makes us spend more and these days I have to sell all those things we don't use. It's more important now to save and be resourceful.
I train myself that what matters is what I need. And now having a business, this thought has saved me a bundle. For another 3 years I will keep on going on tight budget, after that I am free.
