What makes you a good girlfriend?

United States
May 21, 2007 6:11pm CST
The other day my friend asked me what i do to be a good girlfriend to my boyfriend/fiance? So i answered with this. I believe I am a good girlfriend because Jason can count on me all the time no matter what. Along with I trust him with my life and everything I own and he trust me so we dont need to worry about one another cheating or etc. I also give him his space. I believe that me and him need time alone to be with our friends and family, along with making time for one another. We do not need to be up one anothers butts. I tell jason many times a day I love him and appreicate everything he does for me. When i am shopping and if i see something that reminds me of him or something he may like i buy it and give it to him. I listen to everything he has to say and take intrest in his life and his daily happendings. Among all that i support him in the things he does and i encourage him and stand by him when things get tough. I believe those things make me a good girlfriend. So heres my question to you... What makes you a good girlfriend?
5 responses
huilee
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
5 Jun 07
U ssound really good to ur bf and the both of u actually sound vrey loving... Envy envy... =) Well, for me... I hope to be a good gf too... But i guess thats not for me to judege... More of what my bf has got to say about me... But similarly, we trust each other... We let each of us has our own space... We appreciate each other in our daily life... I thank him for every little thing he does for me... He loves me the way i like him to be, and i think im understanding in certain sense... But of coz, theres when everythings sweet... But i think day by day we are getting better... Besides the mutual trust, we have learn to cope with all the quarrels an stresss in our lives... =P Its good to be able o communicate with each other...
cassiezm
@cassiezm (89)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Me if you would ask me...I am a good girlfriend in a way that I would give everything to him for him to be happy..That includes my love..Deep enough to accept him for who he really is and accepting his mistakes...It includes my trust..I would cook food for him..Especially his favorite food..I would always eager to know his likes and dislikes so I would what makes him feel good and makes him feel bad..I would always support him with anything...I am also like you that everytime I would see something nice, the first thing that I would think about is him..That I would buy it for him..I am doing all this all out of love..=]
biznizman01
@biznizman01 (581)
• Philippines
22 May 07
wow if i'm only 20 years younger i would have married you. hehehehe...just kidding. your boyfriend is one lucky dude, its hard to find a girl that has your traits. most girlfriends nowadays wants their boyfriend with them all the time 24/7. i used to have a girlfriend that does not allow me my space. fortunately i met my wife who is completely the opposite.
vasylyna
@vasylyna (28)
• United States
23 May 07
i think trust is a good thing that we have with my boyfriend. Also i'm being a real friend to him. I'm being more like a guy friend with him - listen to the same music, inrested in the same stuff and yes - we watch sports together. But this is all not as important as being in love UNCONDITIONALY. I love him just the way he is, and didn't try to change him in our 4 year realtionship. He appreciates it. I consider us being the best friends, that can't live a minute without each other. That's i'm sure, 4 years - always together ;))))
mamakatsarj
@mamakatsarj (143)
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
hat makes a girl a good girlfriend... thats a question that I even at my age cannot "decode". But hey! men are from mars and we are from venus the reason why we may and may not understand eachother. Dear, being a good girlfriend is just by being who you really are, and accepting the real "him" the flaws and all. LOve him unconditionally but not tell him everyday, let him feel it, maintain your respect for yourself and in that way he will respect you. Dont give too much and not ask for anything in return. Thats being a good person and a good girlfriend for me.