you asked a question and got no response, what would you feel?

it seem that i am not the only one who suffer from here but not in life , i ask question or need help , or want to share my happiness and no response , just 3 of my friend respond to me , yes they make me happy and now i can say i have real friends here in mylot , but i keep asking my self , why is my profile is filled with friends ? i have a lot but i only have 3 or for ? so i think i will get mad later because now i am busy getting angry !!

Well that's a tough question to answer, but I'll do my best to answer. I think it would really depend on the importance of the question. If it was something I needed to know right away I may lose my patience or get a little ticked off if no one gave me a response. If it was something that held really no importance, was just asking to be asking, than I'd probably let it go and ignore the fact that no one answered the question. But I also feel that when a question is asked to someone directly, even if they don't know the answer to it, than they should at least try to give some sort of answer even if it is "I don't know". To me it is rude to ignore someone when they are talking directly to you.

It has actually happened to me before. When you ask a question, the person you're asking the question of has the right to answer or not answer, I guess. This is the way I look at it, anyway. So, in that scenario, I would simply break the silence by asking if they needed time to think about the question or whether they would rather not answer. No big deal, my friend. Brightest Blessings.

i will feel that i am out of place and out of topic. immediately i will know that i brought something up which is either not of interest to anyone, or that, no one has any idea as to what it is all about that i am asking about.

That's how it is at first around here especially but it gets better as time passes by. I try not to take it personal.

I'm the kind of person who loves to talk about things with my boyfriend. But there are times when he doesn't answer my questions. Very annoying sometimes but I get used to it. I'll ask him why is he mad at me and then he doesn't answer. He thinks that I already know the answer. Why would I ask if I know the answer in the first place. Just annoying. Getting mad at him would just add up to the problem. I just leave and ask him again when he is in the mood to answer.

ya,really sorry to hear about that. It's really embrassing to be ignored. I think if I were in your situation, I might be very depressed and frustrated. I don't know if I will get mad of that person. maybe, I would not do anyting to him. But I am sure to have a bad feeling. I would try to calm myself down, and try to think about some reasons in my imagination, maybe that person did not hear what I said, maybe he is not interested in my question, or he is a cold person and does not wanna talk with others. Even worse, maybe that person just means to annoy me, so, I can't get mad because that's what he is expecting. When I've got some reasons, even all of them are in my imagination, I still can feel better. after all, I don't wanna have unplesant work with others. just take it easy. Good luck to you.

I would curse and swear lol.. just kidding. :P I would be quite mad of course. How dare they ignore me?!! I am not so much an attention seeker myself but I wouldn't like to be ignored nevertheless. If I ask and people are ignoring me, I would just stop asking that person. In future, you won't find me too helpful to someone who has not the decency to answer me when I asked a question.

If the question is directed to myself, I will continue asking until I get a response. Getting mad does not intimidate the brain and get it to give you the response you want. If the question is directed to another individual, 3 times is the most I repeat. No response means I take charge and make my own decision. If the question is directed to large audience, I do not know what will happen. Perhaps I will just go mad and yell. lol.

Well, first, I have to ask him/her again. He might didn't hear me asking. Then, if still no response, I will ask another question. If there's no answer, there must be something wrong. I don't wanna get mad for no reason, unless it is so important to be answered.

there are times when people i asked ignore or do not respond to me right away. for me that happens because they might not have heard me or they did not understand what i was asking them. i would probably ask them again with clarity and go near them. if they still won't respond, then i would just leave as if nothing happened. i won't be upset or get mad if they don't reply at all, it's their choice anyway not to answer me. i would even thank them for not answering. LOL

haha...I will just repeat my question to them again. And i will get some response.lol..Although, i feel a little dumb.hahah... Because I might sound too soft for them to hear or maybe they are concentrate on other stuff that they didn't notice what i have say. Sometime, my friend don;t know how and what to say, they will just tell me that. And i will be fine with it.

Admitly,it's a realistic problem for each of us. As we know,only when we are encouraged,we'll have the impulse to work better.It's the same reason for the question above.When our question doesn't get any response,we may have a sense of disappointed.I underwent the similar experience the first time I met "mylot".I put forward a topic,while only one person comment on it.At that moment,I felt frustrated and was thinking about how the result could be so? Now,I am enlightened.Just walk your own way ,no matter what others may say .What's important for us is the courage and the correct attitude to take part in.

i think saying something n getting no response can be really humiliating n sometimes irritating too.this also means that i am not talking quite meaningful enough to make others respond to it,or may be sometimes theres a mismatch of thinking level of the people listening to you which make them stay passive...

If I ask a question on here and don't get a response I'm a little bummed, and I just keep hoping that someone will find it and answer it one day so it doesn't get lonely out on the internet by itself. In real life when I ask someone something and they don't answer me, I get angry and I won't talk to them. I hate repeating myself even more than I hate being disrespected by people so it's a double whammy for me.

it's much worse in real life.especially if it were important. on mylot though,it's a bummer,but it happens. really nothing you can do but keep plugging along.

it fet bad! i have 2 unanswered post last week...

It could be several unknown reason behind the question ???Or nobody no how to answer??? Or simply not interested on that question??? If in real life i would said yes,i felt unhappy and embarrassing ... Certainly if you can be patient and not get upset about it would be the best.

Oh,i'm sorry just now a little fault.Let's continue,in Chinese we say"Melts sorrowfully is the strength." Life just in our own hands.We are the controller of our destiny.Singing your favourite songs,reading your favourite books loudly...all can make you happy!Let laughing stays with our life.Do you agree?

Hi,dear mskzalameda.I think if i on such scenario, as you i must feel angry.But just several seconds.Because i know angry even to be can't solve any question.Do you think so?Then i will think more about what sitution i just fall in.Think more about how to solve it.I have heard a story onve.It said a young man who as soon as meets something difficult,angry or sad,he would run around his house.Whiling to himself,"i have no time to angry or sad.I live such a small place ,i need a bigger one.To think how gain what i want is the most problem"Again and again,until he is peaceful enough for some trouble. I got from it when we meet something sad,to think how to solve no complaint.In Chinese we say"