as a wife, do you everything to please your husband?

for me, i will not do everything just not to leave me. i will just being me. i will not pretend to be what i'm not. if he leaves me, it's just mean that he dont love me. thanks

LOL oh hell no!! If he wants to leave he's more than free to and if he wants to sleep around he's more than free to do that too BUT he'd better tell me first and not do it behind my back....Do I do everythign to please him? absolutely not....I do the things I do to benefit myself and how this family works as a unit.."pleasing" ppl isnt something I concern myself with...If ppl dont like how i am..then go the hell away and leave me to my business ya know...

hmm nice question? Let me tell you first that I trust my husband a lot and I dont do every thign to please my husband they are certain things which I may not like and which he may likes and he will think about that and then do accordingly with out hurting any body's feeling, it is just that you should have trust, caring love, effection and understand towards your partner and I am sure your like will be successfully and you can enjoy your life..I love my husband many times I just say no to him but he still loves me that's a kind of understanding we have ...I dont have fear that he leaves me or cheets me even he stays 1000 miles a far from me because I TRUST him ... So dont do eveything to make the relationship work but marry a right person in your life so that you can trust him and can live with him happily forever..All the best!

In the beginning of our relationship, I am really doing everything just to please my husband. I really pity myself when I look back at those times. I feel that in order for our relationship to stay, I have to do what he likes thus compromising my wants. But as time passes by we had grown. I have adjusted and I know he did too. I guess now, we are like doing our own part. Our own responsibilities. I really like our relationship now. He makes me feel special, and is really trying hard for this relationship to be stronger. I trust him more today than yesterday. I am tired of jealousy. I know I will be the loser in the end if I succumb to these negative feelings, which I am very vulnerable. A couple should be hand in hand because you are now one.

"Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as unto the Lord" (Ephesians 5:22) always reminds me of my vows when I got married 30 years ago. Without God between me and my husband, I would have left him from Day 1 when a wife discovers so many things about the husband that she married. But just because the husband has final responsibility doesn't make him always right. When there is a conflict, the wife must do whatever she can to help him see things in as broader perspective. She must lovingly and submissively correct him, not to put him down, but to build him up and make him a better man. Yes, I feel that I have to do everything to make the relationship work, NOT just for him not to leave me or cheat, but BECAUSE WE ARE ONE FLESH, AND therefore when we got married, we vowed to chart a single course together. May God bless your marriage!