LOVE Marriage Vs. ARRANGED marriage

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hey well i too had started the same topic for discussion sometime back..lol..;)..hmm well i prefer love marriages especially of the tradition in india..that the girl goes to meet the boy and then horoscopes are matched and things like that and at the end if the boy doesnt like,he refuses..although the scenario has changed a bit in some of the cases but it remains more or less the same..i too am in love with a guy and would like to marry and be with him..

I prefer love marriage I don't know about your culture if you're from a different country than me, but here parents don't arrange marriage for ther children anymore, we all can choose who we really love to get married with

Prefer to be married because of love not the way that being arrange by both parties specifically by parents.Yes, arrange marriage do happen not only here but to other countries too.What is not good about this idea is you dont have a love foundation that is really important for a lifetime commitment.

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i think love marriage is best.. becuase.. LOVE : 1) each of them can know abt each other very well ( like knowing each other minus points and plus points ) 2) they will surely shre their happy or sorrow like a friends so love is best... but the marriage has to be done wi utmost parents blessings my vote is for love marriage only.... if u are going for arrange marriage means ARRANGE : 1) they have to start their sharing after their marriage so only few cpls are made for each other... arrange marriage is a luck for the cplz but love marriage is always made for each other if both are SINCERE...

One must always marry for only ONE reason, and that's LOVE. If u grow to love the person you're getting hooked up with by your parents, then it's a different deal altogether. But i believe in love being the only bond that keeps people happily together.

Hello friends, Most of the responses favoured here for love marriage. Love VS arranged ultimate result is same i.e. marriage. Both the parties are trying to justifying their views. I think if your married life goes smooth then it hardly matters what type of marriage you did but the important thing is your satisfaction and success of married life. I think arrange marriages are more stable and successful. I am not against the Love marriage but love marriage creates complexes after 3-4 years of marriage.

not question is not clear, whether you want to know which one is better, or for which i shall vote?, anyway it really depends upon the circumstances in your life, you might really be in deep love, but still the circumstances in your life might part you apart, may be your parents wont agree to your relationship. as for arranged marriages, it really seems quite difficult to adjust and live with a person, whom you have never met in your life, but it really depends, either you will find a really good partner or it might end into a disastor

both are good. but i choice love marriage.

I could not imagine an "arranged" marriage but I know in some cultures it is the norm. I'm so glad to be an american where marriages are between consenting adults that want to be wed with each other. I have heard sometimes those arranged ones work out but still what about for all the ones that don't. I'd rather be the old maid I am than be a part of something like that!

i always vote for love marriage ever..only in that v can understand our life-partner best before marriage..we will be able to adjust ourself with him/her under any situation in life..

i definitely prefer love marriage.. how could i live with someone that i don't even know? i would be pleased if i marry that person because of his personalities that i know before i could actually agree to marry him.. =) i love khalid, he's the one and only.. haha

i definitely prefer love marriage.. how could i live with someone that i don't even know? i would be pleased if i marry that person because of his personalities that i know before i could actually agree to marry him.. =) i love khalid, he'sone and only.. haha

No doubt any one will portray his/her best side before others especially before the person he wants to love. But no body can fool all the time and in some place his original self will peep up. In arranged marriage, it is not at all possible. Therefore, I prefer Love marriage.

i would prefer any coz both r qute the same for me... in love marriage we find ourselves our partner and in arranged marriage our parents do... In both cases its love that should be there so that the marraige will not be a unhappy one...

hi ! i am a single person.i think love come arranged marriage is better for life. how do you feel? any way ,welcome to mylot! All the best for earn more money from mylot.

Arrange marriages are mostly practiced by Chinese and some muslims too. For me it can happen out of obedient for the parents and the clan. Love marriage are often done in democratic and free countries. I do prefer love marriage because for me we only have "One-Great-Love". But arrange marriages also happen for a green card. Hmmm I think I can handle it hehehe!

well, i prefer love marriage because it will work for sure in the long run but arrange marriage its just for a month or so.. ive been in an arrange marriage but the marriage cancelled. because my fiance love another girl... and i love another man too.. and our parents respect that because we can't live with each other.. and we are good friends.. lolsss..