What you will do if you found yourself in such situation?

i guess im too selfish... i will abort the child... i mean, i dun wanna break up others family and the wife is innocent, coming to think of it, im the third party... besides, if the guy dun wans me, i cant have a child without its father.. i dun wan the child to be bullied by others in future and feel less loved coz theres no dad around to loves him... but, i will never forgive the guy... hes really a jerk... but i still feels tt his wife deserves the right to noe of such a thingy...

That is really heartbreaking! ut being pregnant changes the ballgame. You now have to decide what is best for the child. Factor in everything. Are you going to keep the baby? Adoption? Abortion? This person you so badly loved has been deceiving you this whole time, would you trust them to not do the same to the child?