suggestions please!!!

You can start by requesting people at myLot to be your friends. If you want friends whom you could meet then you can request those who are from your own city and after interacting with them on the Internet, may be you can meet them. You should be very clesr in your mind as to what you want from the friends. And you should also think of consequences, if a friend does not measure up to your expectations when you have known him enough. Good luck to you.

go online, the internet is a great way to make new friends and reconnect with old friends. hope that helps.