life..

I'm pretty sure you're in a confused stage right now. Sometimes, I get to that point but I always find a way out. I pray, just let things be and live one day at a time. I leave everything up to God. Grab every opportunity that comes your way, it'll help you. Stay out of vices, it'll ruin you. Cherish each moment and live like it is your last. Goodluck, i hope you find your way in this jungle life of ours....

Sorry, friend, but you are not forthcoming about the relevant details about yourself and your life. Do you have too much money that you don't know how to spend or manage? Is it a relationship, educational or career prtoblem? Please, be more specific to enable useful advice to be given. Meanwhile, if you believe in prayers, pray to God for a solution.

For one who is about to leave his teenage years, you really are a confused person. Like me when I was your age, or like the million of others who have passed this age and experienced, lived, lost, encountered, left and found, what you yourself are in right now. No, I'm not saying that what you are going through right now is not real. I'm sure it is, as I'm sure that confusion begets pain, and pain can lead to desperation. And that leads to hopelessness. And being hopeless is what you DON'T want to be right now. You might be confused because you don't understand the options that are open to you. Being hopeless is not wanting to open your eyes to the possibilities offered by those options. Since you are confused at the moment, that could mean that you have seen the options in your life and their possible consequences. Only, your fear of what you don't know is preventing you from going ahead. In this sense, I would say overcome your fear, and you could accept any possible option that would lead you out of confusion. Some people have faith in God and this is good for people who accept divine intervention in their life. Are you one of them? If you are, then, here you have one way to help you out of your confusion. Talk to God, and that means praying for enlightenment. You are not one of them? Then try a friend. Talk to a friend. Like they say, a friend in need is a friend indeed. But do you know how to find a friend like this? Well, again, you just have to trust that the friend you choose will be one who can help you. And if you can trust a human friend, and you are capable of putting yourself under the care of that human friend, then I'm sure, you will be more able to trust a God who is always there when you need him.