I think that my father is having an affair with another woman...

Be strong. Don't feel sorry about it. I know the feeling my friend. "You are not alone!". . I guess my experiences in life is worse that yours. Let me say, my dad is also a womanizer. I even caught him red-handed sleeping with another woman 3 years ago. How about that?! I don't want to aggravate more on what u-r feeling right now. . Well i guess, it's better for u to confront ur dad about it. That you and ur mom's been noticing strange things about him. Don't let fear hinder you in doing what is right. You have the power and the might to do that ... i think its about high time for you to let go the weight of the world u-r carrying on your shoulders right now, don't u think? (",)

Sorry about the disturbing events. A look in your profile did not reveal your gender, but I guess that you are female. I gathered that you are quite young, at 16. Your worries are, therefore, understandable, considering your age and presumed gender. Honestly, I would have asked you to look inward before consulting outsiders. Have you talked to your dad? What of your mom - did you seek her opinion as to why your dad has turned unfaithful? You will learn a lot of solid facts from asking your parents first-hand rather than relying on guesswork from us on this forum. Theoretically, however, several factors can account for a sudden change in attitude of a man to his wife in the context of faithfulness. They include lack of s**xual fulfilment and need for a change arising from the wife's faults/factors (such as poor hygiene, poor response, 'rationing', certain disease, poor attraction, secondary infertility, etc), and the man's faults/factors(overactive libido, randiness, fantasy-seeking, natural or acquired flirtatious tendencies, peer-group effect, etc), or both. Only a direct investigation from your parents will yield a specific set of causes. Meanwhile, try and console yourself with the fact that ups and downs are the only unchanging characterstics of a marriage. With a good handling from all concerned, including yourself, marital instabilities often give way to marital equilibrium or positive balance. I wish you good luck and renewed happiness.

how sad is that..just hold on dear, don't make any decisions that could give harm on your self..what you need to do right now is pray, ask for guidance..sometimes, in our life God gives us hard problems that sometimes, can make us depressed but it can make us stronger as a person too..i think He gave that kind of problem to you because He knows that you can face it and you can think of a solution for that..just seek for a person that you can talk to, i think it's your mom you need to talk to..

It is a matter of danger.. Please don't break your friendship with your father. Because it is the only way via that you can reach to your fathers deep instantly & always friendship keep a influence about others..

Hey girl, you must talk it out with your father. Let your mother and your father talk to each other, maybe they have problems with each other.

That is teribile . The worst thing that can happand to a family.

That is teribile . The worst thing that can happand to a family.