cold war
By julia521125
@julia521125 (350)
China
May 24, 2007 12:23am CST
My boy friend and I are in cold war,we havn't talked to each other for almost three days,I don't know what should I do,waiting for him to say"Sorry" or what?
2 responses
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
24 May 07
Hi julia!By the way i want to know what is the reason of the sold war? It depends on the situation if its your fault or you upset him then you must be the one to say sorry first but if its his fault then he must initiate it first. And depends on the problems in your relationship. But you must comsider this, do you still love him? are you ready to give him up? but if it is just a minor problem I hope you can settle things as soon as possible you know time is gold, you must enjoy being together in all the days in your life...
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@julia521125 (350)
• China
24 May 07
it is because I think he was treating me coldly,but he didn't admit that,he said that is because he didn't know how to show his enthusiam to me and he would like to love me quietly~~Anyway,I don't think he is telling the truth~
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
24 May 07
sorry i didn't get your question first i get it you mean cold war like between russia and germany? lol. anyways communication is one of the important thing in a realtionship, you must talk to him why he treated you that way, if he is still interested with you. You can feel it what he wants, there are things are better left unsaid. But you must be sure of it. try to patch things up and save and fight for your relationship. But for me first I'll do my best to save and fight for it but if he still shows no attention with me or seems he dont care of me anymore I no longer waste my time for them it feels good to us women that men are running after him not we run after for them right? as long as you did everything now it his turn... its sad to think that the man we love is not happy with us anymore. "If its not him, it will never be him, no matter how much i love him.. but if incase just incase he's for me, he will always be for me, no matter how often i set him free" but you know julia that is my philosophy in love. Im just here to give a comment. I hope and pray that you must first talk to him and settle things do your part but if to no avail. it his lost not yours... ^_^
@empressofdrac (503)
• Philippines
24 May 07
hmmmn...if you feel like you want to talk to him now the do it...don't be a hypocrite to your own needs...i mean sometimes you should lower your pride so that you can be truly happy...if you truly love him you will come to him and even ask forgivenes for your shortcomings...i guess all problems can be solved if you two will gonna talk about it...
jah bless...hope you and your bf will be ok...
@julia521125 (350)
• China
24 May 07
Thank you!But I am wondering whether he is thinking to say"good bye" to me~wheter he is still love me~Ok,I will talk to him~Thank you so much!
