Have you encountered this situation? How do you tackle it?

China
May 24, 2007 8:02am CST
My girlfriend always wants me to stay with her,but i don't have much time.I'm pursuing my Phd degree,and i stay in the laboratory nearly all the time.I love my girlfriend very much.I don't want to hurt her heart. so guys, give me your advice.How can i tackle with this situation?Thanks in advance.
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@yanstill (1490)
• China
24 May 07
well,i think the first thing for you is to ask her for understanding.you can explain to her why you are busy right now,in the laboratory,why you want to get your phd degree,i think that's because you are planning for your future,maybe it's you and her's future. and by the way,girls like sweet words,try to call her every day even if you are really busy,but i think you can squeeze one minute,right?
• United States
24 May 07
I agree. Once she understands what you have to do, it might be easier for her to ease up a little. Just make sure that she knows that you still care about her.
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@yanstill (1490)
• China
25 May 07
yes,at that moment,communication is important.let her know how much you care about her,and she'll understand it. thank you Keleidescope.:)