What I need space really means...

need space - couple talking
Philippines
May 24, 2007 11:54am CST
How to tell if your spaceman just needs time off or is set to fly off? What exactly is this space thing? Is it a cozy den where he can sneak off to work on his hobbies? Or is it a personal cone of silence you'll never be allowed to enter again? The truth is, when a guy says " I need space," his only telling you the half of the story...If a guy wants to more time to be with his friends and pursue his interests,give it to him...Its an early an positive sign that he's very into you but scared of giving up too much of the "him: for the sake of the "us". If he doesn't have a change to relign the buddies versus girlfriend time equation- even if its just in his mind, he's going to end up resenting him later on...
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@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
24 May 07
Well I guess it depends on what point in the relationship he says that, early on, yes, sure give it to him and maybe things will be better later, 5, 10 years after, no! I say if he doesnt know by then if he wants you or not, say good bye! I know it is easier said than done and right now I should listen to my own advice, but that is what I think.