giving your baby away
By barehugs
@barehugs (8973)
Canada
May 24, 2007 2:21pm CST
You have enough kids, and you're Pregnant again.
Your Brother, and Sister-in-law want kids and can't have any.
Would you consider delivering your baby, and giving it (no strings attached) to your brother and sister-in-law, to raise as their own child?
5 responses
@laneita (78)
• United States
25 May 07
if your to the point that you have too many children already an just cant support or raise this child then yes i would give it to my brother an sister in law to raise. i mean if they cant have children an want one an you cant afford another child. give that child to someone who will love him or her. someone to give them maybe a better chance in life. an if thats the case then do that but remember do something about it so you cant have anymore children. dont bring children into the world if you dont want them, a child deserves to be made out of love an happiness not just because. give him or her to them so they can have a chance at being loved. hope things work out an god bless
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
25 May 07
I was asking if you would freely give a child of yours to a family member ot friend.......?
I said (no strings attached) meaning that this was to be a Gift!
Pleasae read the post and don't go on and on about things that have nothing to do with the Question.
Thanks for your reply.
@Gorgeous24 (1091)
• United States
24 May 07
I would definitely give my brother & his wife the ultimate gift in life and give him a baby. Why would I not? Children are blessings from God, unfortunantly not every woman or man can make a baby so it would be an honor for me to provide a childless couple with one of the many blesssings God has given me. So my answer is a definite YES
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
24 May 07
i would be willing carry a baby for them as a surogate mother, but I couldn't give them one of my own. I would spend my whole life missing the child and judging everything they did while raising the child. I think it would be too hard to watch the kid grow up and know that it was mine. And suppose the kid found out the truth one day...I don't think the kid would see the kindness of the act, but more the fact that he was one too many kids and given away.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
24 May 07
A complicated Answer, Ravinskye!
But.......
its all about a Great Gift of Love!
(A Surogate Mother gets payed.....)
This is a Gift to your Sibling
you would feel so happy each time you saw the child!
The child would know of your Great Gift from day One
Your Life would be Richer from that Day on.
I'll accept your answer as an
"No!"
@321633wy (1795)
• United States
24 May 07
Giving away my baby...! NOooo i don't think i can do that.Nomatter how difficult the situation i will try yo pull it off as a respobnsible parent to the baby that i have carried for ten months.
It's not the baby's fault,it's me to bring him/her to the world therefore i have to responsible for the consequances.
