What will you do if your fiance betrayed you?

@Rittings (673)
May 24, 2007 2:34pm CST
It's few months before the wedding, suddenly you got news that your fiance betrayed you. He's in realtionship with someone. What will you do? Will you forgive him? Will you still gonna get married with him?
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tmlnmr
@tmlnmr (1850)
• Canada
24 May 07
Your kidding right? Can you ever trust him again? Would you not be suspiscious every time he came home late from work or if he wasn't where he said he was? I know it would take a long time before I could ever trust him again if at all! So to answer your question No I would not marry him and as for what I would do I would be breaking off the engagement and forgiveness would be a while coming.
Rittings
@Rittings (673)
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20 Jun 07
I agree.... It's a harsh situation, but i think that you need to be equal to the harshness that's being dealt out... I don't think i could ever trust anyone that cheated on me ever again... They would have to go (and that would mean I punish myself twice!! haha).
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tmlnmr
@tmlnmr (1850)
• Canada
20 Jun 07
Yes you will be punishing yourself as well but in the end you will be much happier and better off. If you stay then there will be alot more punishment and emotional anguish along with it.
Norstar
@Norstar (694)
• India
24 May 07
I shall thank God for letting me know well in advance and before marrying him that my fiancee can betray. I would also thank God for good riddance from such a man. I do not know whether I would forgive him or not; I would definitely forget him. No, no. I would never marry him.
Rittings
@Rittings (673)
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20 Jun 07
Yup.. you're right. Defo got to go if they cheat... I hate that most of all! I could never regain trust.
Shaunee
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
24 May 07
I would have to think long and hard before I married him. I mean after you'll get married do you think that he will stop doing this?
lifeoriley
@lifeoriley (262)
• United States
24 May 07
I would forgive him, but no way would l marry him. If he was in another relationship l would seriously doubt he would want to marry me, even if he still wanted to. That wouldn't be a way to start of a marriage,I wouldn't be able to stand always looking over my shoulder.