What would you do if your friend was cheating?
By TriciaW
@TriciaW (2441)
United States
May 24, 2007 2:48pm CST
If your friend was cheating on her husband and you found out what would you do? She comes up to you with the other man and introduces you while they are holding hands. You tell her later you are not happy about it but she just laughs and says he makes her happy. Would you go to her husband knowing she wasn't going to quit this other relationship or would you keep your mouth shut?
5 responses
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
19 Jun 07
Its better to keep my mouth shut coz i dont wanna lose s friend...but dont worry try telling her what she is doing is so very wrong and just keep doing that always.......and as well as you know, the truth never hids...it will come out one time or the other...so ask her to be prepared for that as well...then she might loose her husband and her family as well.......is she ready to give up all that? .....
@irishmist (3814)
• United States
25 May 07
This is a hard one. A lot of people cheat for reason or another. I never have but thats just me. There could be many reasons why she is doing this. But I feel she should have told you first, and not springing it on you. As for her husband. Well what kind of guy is he? Is he a nice decent guy or a jerk? If he is a jerk. I might say let it go, but if he is decent and treats her right, and there is no reason for it. I would not come right out and tell him. I might drop hints to him. If your friend starts to become outrageous with this new man and flaunts him out there. Then I would say tell her husband, because nobody likes to be made a laughing stock in front of everyone.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
24 May 07
I'm actually in a similar situation. A friend of my mothers, her husband is cheating on her. All their friends know about it. He doesn't have a steady mistriss or anything, he just sleeps around. No one tells her though. When I found out about it I couldn't believe no one told her. But this woman is so head over heals for her husband, and he is a good dad and takes care of their family. So I have joined the ranks in keeping my mouth shut. I don't think what he is doing is right by any means...but I don't want to be the one to crush the woman.
@Gorgeous24 (1091)
• United States
24 May 07
If your HER friend why would you tell HER husband? It really shouldnt bother you because she is the one who is married and cheating not you so to be honest if you dont want her to bring her new man around you then you should talk to HER. Its really none of your business (im not trying to be mean) but I was in your same situation and shes my friend and I just kept my mouth shut.
