How do you feel about children in beauty pageants?
@misssweetthingg (355)
United States
May 24, 2007 9:12pm CST
I have heard some major horror stories about little girls who enter into beauty pageants..how do you feel about it? I think its kind of scary because the sick men get attracted to that and then they become targets. But, this does not happen all the time so I want some opinions here! Thanks!
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
25 May 07
I think beauty pagents give children a false sense of their worthiness as being only external. I think little girls should not be taught their worth depends on winning a contest based upon their looks.
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@misssweetthingg (355)
• United States
27 May 07
Very good and I completely agree. They just arent for kids, theres really nothing good that comes out of them!
@serialmommy (639)
• United States
25 May 07
I really don't feel that that is the right kind of environment for a young girl. I really think it stresses too much about appearence and therefore really instills in the child the wrong kind of values. I realize it's not an easy thing to do, however I also think that young girls should be taught things that help them learn to love themselves and understand that appearences definately are not the most important thing, even though the media really tries to show that it is in fact that way.
@misssweetthingg (355)
• United States
27 May 07
I think it draws them away from their modesty too. I would rather my little girl be modest than to be out there posing and all that stuff adults do! Like you said, this gives these kids the understanding that appearance means alot and they shouldnt grow up that way!
@maildumpster (3815)
• United States
25 May 07
I don't think they should have kiddie pageants. Especially not the way they are now. These little girls (and boys) should be able to just come out naturally. It should be required that they should not be allowed all the makeup etc.
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@misssweetthingg (355)
• United States
25 May 07
I got a letter in the mail a week ago that my daughter had been chosen to be in the pageant for our state. They also stated in there that kids from ages four to twelve are not allowed to wear makeup. I thought this was a good thing but I still didnt feel right about letting her do it so I just tossed it!
@crickethear (1417)
• United States
25 May 07
I absolutely am not for them. I think it is way too much pressure for the child, and makes many of them, have a sense of entitlement. I also think that if they lose, they somehow feel they failed, and don't fully understand why they didn't win. In addition, they are made to look much older, and to be too sexualized before they should be. Kids should be kids and have a normal life without being taught that they must be prettier than all the other girls to be acceptable.
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@misssweetthingg (355)
• United States
25 May 07
I agree. I dont think its right to have a little girl look "sexy". I think they have their other things to worry about such as what they are going to play that day rather than getting involved in adult things such as pageants.
@Methodless (882)
• Canada
25 May 07
I hate it for all the reasons already mentioned above.
If society wants to have beauty pageants, then fine. But why build a foundation for it? Kids shouldn't be taught at a young age that people with specific features beyond their control have assigned entitlements in life.
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@misssweetthingg (355)
• United States
25 May 07
Right! Kids should not be in competition. To teach competition is wrong..then they take that to school with them and automatically think they are better than everybody and they start bragging, its just not good for kids!