who would you pick, someone who really loves you or the one you really love?

@Zelmarq (12585)
Cebu City, Philippines
May 24, 2007 11:35pm CST
For me, I would go for that someone who I love and also loves me in return. Its hard to love someone who does not feel for you. And its also hard to be loved and not loving back in return. I am someone who easily loves someone and I guess love is a learned thing, maybe in time I will be able to love that person in the end. How about you mylotters?
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@Jane_07 (11)
• Philippines
25 May 07
I'd rather be the one i love rather than pretend to be with somebody i don't love or else we both got hurt. Happiness is very important in the field of love for it is a tool to a long and lasting relationship. Choose where you could be happy.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
26 May 07
Yes, its something that should be reciprocated. If it does not, it ends like an unrequited love.
@ibsnet (1268)
• India
25 May 07
I believe love should be reciprocal. It may start from either end that doesn't matter. What is important is each should be equally passionate, equally feel for each other. That's true love.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
26 May 07
Yes, love a learned process. If one starts to show love to the other, the other person will be able to learn to love the one who first showed love.
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
25 May 07
I think I would choose the one who loves me the most because I could learn to love someone if that someone really has a good heart. I also know that if I love and is committed, I would not do anything that would dishonor that love or commitment. So I guess it's just extra insurance for me to have someone who loves me more.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
26 May 07
Yes its more acceptable if we are loved more than we love the other person more.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
25 May 07
Of course,we all want to have partner who love us and also we love them.But there are so many things are not perfect.So this is always the case:there is a person who love me while i don't love him.And there is another person i love him but he doesn't love me.Then which to choose?This is really a difficult question,cuz it related to the happiness of our future life. As far as i am concerned,i would choose the one who loves me.Cuz choosing a man he doesn't love me means hardship.I have read a lot of stories,there is no happy ending at all.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
26 May 07
Yes, we share the same views on these areas of love and loving. I would prefer to be the one loving than me giving so much effort and never loved in return.