Do you admire those who admire you?
By ssh123
@ssh123 (31073)
India
4 responses
@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
18 Jul 07
It's a natural tendency to reciprocate feelings of liking and admiration to people...if they admire you, you will also notice their goodness, their kindness, generosity...mutualism is the name of the game in a relationship. If you love me, I will love you in return; if you hate me, my tendency is to hate you in return. I have a colleague who I learned recently to have expressed her dislike for me...so thereafter, I started to avoid the person, and actually disliking her, noticing her defects and shortcomings...I know it's bad, but it's really an instinctive reaction to either like or dislike people. I can't worship or admire someone who dislikes me!
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@zhamvady (30)
• Philippines
30 Jul 07
ms. psyche49f... we do have the same sentiments.. if I feel that such person doesn't like me, I tend to avoid him/her.. in some cases.. I'll try to show him that I don't deserve such treatment.. but in a while..if he doesn't change I don't insist myself..why wasting my time for those who doesn't like me...
on the other hand.. i thank for all those who admire me...as my gratitude or my way of thanking them, I am nice to them... I also love giving compliments, especially those who deserve it..
@whoisanand (228)
• India
25 May 07
Ya, I Do Admire those who admire me ! as I Think to admire anyone need honesty, faith, truthfulness, and respect for others.
@rladiga00 (1165)
• India
25 May 07
When I admire someone, I do it sincerely. Similarly I love all those who admire me.
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