A friend of mine believe that she want to get pregnant first before marriage.

@Abbyey (760)
Philippines
May 25, 2007 6:39am CST
A friend told me that she wanted to get pregnant before getting married. I ask her why? she said so that she know if she can give her husband children. I asked her what made her think that she cant? she couldnt answer me about it. She just said that her bf loves kids and she wanted to make sure she can give him kids. Do you think its logical? do you thinks its right?
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@jogie_bien (1103)
• Philippines
26 May 07
i dont think its logical because if they loved each other they have to accept if their partner cannot give children.they get married because they loved each other, and not to get married for giving baby only.what is her bf want her gf or the children?
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@accents (87)
• United States
25 May 07
I don't think that makes much sense. If they love each other and want to get married, they should do it whether they can have children together or not. If it's that important to the man that the woman he marries be able to bear him children, mabe your friend should find another man. Choosing a partner is no longer about the woman's child-bearing ability. If they both really want to find out, they could have testing done. I just don't think it's a good reason to postpone marriage at all.