Cheaters...

First of all, I would no longer trust them. I might still be nice to them but I would move into a more surface relationship and nothing further! Trust is very important to me and so I would also feel very betrayed! That would hurt greatly!

I have experienced being cheated too. It was the most painful moment in my life because i really trusted that person so much. That person was my ex-bf and i still could not forget the thing that he had done to me although i already have forgiven him. It was just a trauma that at my first few years in my new relationship, i became more suspicious to my partner although there is nothing to be suspicious about. I was just being paranoid myself! Damn me! ehehehe.. So far so good for now. I have overcome it and i have established my trust to my partner in life now. Welcome to mylot friend! I'm a neophyte here too. Godbless!

If my husband ever cheated on me I would feel hurt and betrayal. I would leave him and divorce him. No second chances for a cheater. I take the marriage vows very seriously.