if you like your friend's boy friend too much.......?

Egypt
May 25, 2007 5:09pm CST
hi guys wonna know something if you like your close friend's boyfriend too much and you cant handle it would you make any move to make him noticed cause actually i do it before but i was 19 years old am now 22 but am not sure lol .....?
1 response
@tonixxx (358)
26 May 07
No, if you value the friend with whom this boy is then you will leave well alone. You should not make a move of any description it is not fair on your friend. What you are feeling is probably an infactuation any ways, you see what they have and assume that it is because of him. It is not it is because of them as a unit what they share is something special, a bond and you will experience this one day but look father from home. There is no guarentee that he would be the same with you as he is with her and you would lose her frienship if she even suspected that you was thinking about moving in on her man.
• Egypt
26 May 07
well thx but i was just a teenager it happened once before and i think that way because it happened with me all the time with my boyfriend no one cares a bout my feelings ever i wouldn't do it in this time cause am realy care a bout my friend's feelings but they always didnt
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
26 May 07
I agree with tonixxx, you probably are infatuated and the fact that humans have this nature to want what they cant have, also I think sometimes it is more about wanting the bond that your friend has with her boyfriend, or wanting a boyfriend like that, more than it is about the particular guy. I say if you value the friendship. he is totally off-limits, he is hers and if they break up, he was hers and I myself wouldnt go there.