i am 22 so disparate to have a baby..............

Wow you guys are having children at a young age. Here in Denmark it's very common to wait until you are around 30. I've been with my GF for 5+ years, we are both 23, and no where near ready to have children. She's finishing her chemical engineering degree and I just got out of the university last year. Our careers are just staring and a child would mess everything up, I can easily wait another 10 years. I really can't understand why someone would want to destroy their youth / possibilities of a career just to have children at such a young age. Guess it's a cultural thing :-) It would seem very strange if a 20 year of had a baby here where I come from.

Having a baby is one of the best moments in life. The feeling of knowing a life is growing inside is just the begining. When you go to the doctor and hear that heart beat for the first time, you get so emotional. Or when you see your first ultrsound you may even feel a tear of joy stroll down your face. I just had my 6th baby and everytime I went through a pregnancy it was like the first time. And when you feel that new life kick inside you it's always amazing and you will just be amazed. I'm sort of getting teary eyed just talking about it. Being a mother is so special I wish so many didn't take it for granted. Being a mother is truly a blessing. Just be patient, and when God feels it's your time to experience this wonderful joy in life you will receive your blessing. Good luck and best wishes on your journey as you wait to become a mother. Treasure that blessing always. Because becoming a mother is a gift.

Becoming a mother is agreat,wonderfull feeling that no women want to loose in her life time the happiness that is gained by having children,i support you and iam happy for you and for your lovely decision all the best and be it done naturally without any force and wait till time comes. Have a wonderfull day.

I remember feeling so desperate to get pregnant. I think sometimes you know what is up for you next in life. I was 20 when I got married and we got to trying for a baby right away. It didnt work out that way for us. I think I was putting myself under a lot of stress and so after a year and a few months we gave up. We decided that we needed to take a break from the calendar and calm the stress down and low and behold it took us 2 weeks from that point. I was 22 whe nI had my son and it was the best thing in the whole world. It was like a piece of me was missing and now I found it. It is a hard time in your life but it will only get better. Get rid of the stress you put on your self and let it come naturaly. When I was trying to get pregnant people told me a hundred times to stop stressing and it would come, I didnt understand then but I do now. Good luck, I hope it works out for you soon!

hi emman, yes i am locking to have children two but every thing is coming in the time. but i think girls locking in difrent way to this for us it like locking for something to happen in life but i see that women need to have a baby i don't know if tis truw or not???

It is wonderful to have children...but it is something that needs to happen naturally. Do not rush into this as I would strongly advise against that. It will happen when you are ready. cheers,