texting with my ex-bf isn't just a small deal....
By khayee
@khayee (7)
Philippines
May 25, 2007 9:18pm CST
I'm happily married and a mother of my one and only son at the age of 24.Few months ago I started having communication with my ex bf.This got possible through texting and I know that with texting we could say anything even if we don't mean it.So we exchanged messages day by day and I felt like he was already treating me as his gf once more.Just like me,he is also married with no kid yet.
I thought that this game won't mean a thing at all,Until one day this marked a scar on thier relationship as a married couple.I never intended to hurt or even ruin their life coz for the same reason i don't want it to happen to me as well.
I really wanted to stop this mess but then he won't stop communicating to me anymore.He decided to give up his wife for me and my son..I told him he shouldn't be doing this coz he's not gonna get the same reponse from me but still it happened.With my helped they were able to patch things up.
Although everybody wants to be treated as a princess,what do u think will be the best thing for me to do to get rid of this.I don't want to change my no. just because of him.
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2 responses
@shannon76 (1232)
• United States
26 May 07
You need to stop all communication with him. You have a family. You need to think of your family first. This will RUIN your relationship with your husband and quite possibly will ruin the relationship with your son if he learns of it. Do you really want to do that? It is really best just to stop ALL communication with this ex. And if it is really necessary I would change your number. It might be the best thing to do if there is a chance of him contacting you again. I had to get rid of a myspace account because of one of my ex's. Remember your family is WAY more important then an ex.
@khayee (7)
• Philippines
26 May 07
thanks for the response,it somehow help me realized that i have to value my family the more.U were right when u said that my son would be disgusted at me if knew about.so yes i surely will change my no.since it is the only means of communication between us.
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@shannon76 (1232)
• United States
26 May 07
I'm glad to hear that. You are making the right choice by doing that. God bless and good luck!
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
26 May 07
you have learned your lesson the hard way. you forgot that it is never advisable to be playing with fire. yes, you have to change your number that is, if that's the only way that you can get rid of that guy texting you over and over. you'd better act fast before your husband will be the one who gets affected by what you have been doing. you can be sure that this time, it shall be your family that will be on the rocks. and you'd better not count on anyone coming to your rescue when this happens. you should know how life turns its back upon us when we are in dire distress.
