when you lover the people leave you with the other,you will bless him/she or not
By fengbo
@fengbo (731)
China
May 25, 2007 10:38pm CST
I usually consider a question i will bless she?
Sometimes people say:love one person does not want her,as long as her's happy enough wood.But i think it's hard to do?You will not have a person to pay?
what do you think of?please share you opinion? Thanks for every response.
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4 responses
@nannacroc (4049)
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26 May 07
I don't thnik anyone can say what they would do in this situation unless it has happend to them. I would like to think that I would let go if the person I loved would be happier with someone else but I woul probably be hurt and angry and let my heart rule my head.
@krislouiebaby (2346)
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
no matter how we love the person,bf/gf or husband or wife.there comes a time that they will leave us. and if that happen to me, i will bless him, i will let him live his own life away from me, if that he chose to do.
of course it hurts but i have to accept it, that's the fact of life.
@susieq223 (3742)
• United States
26 Jun 07
I am not sure what you are asking here, but I'm going to see if I understand it. Are you saying if you love a person who leaves you for another person, do you forgive or do you try to get revenge? If I am understanding the question right, it is a good question. When I get hurt, my first thought is too want to hurt back. The best way, and the healthiest way, though is to forgive and to bless the other person. That is also what my religion says, too. But it is a lot easier said than done!
@fengbo (731)
• China
26 Jun 07
yeah,but i don't agree with you,if someone leave you,you get hurt,you can not want to hurt back at the first,when you stay with her/him,her/him also bring you feel very happy and a nice memory.but if her/him leave you,i think maybe you cannot suit.maybe your right cannot appear in this time....
Thanks for your response...
@Katagiri (426)
• Brazil
26 Jun 07
That's hard! Well... I never did that, I even cursed... I don't know now because I have another mind but, the best you ca do, it to forget when you can't forgive. Free your mind of thoughts that bother you and you'll be happier to find a new one.
