Should I Come ?

Indonesia
May 26, 2007 1:21am CST
Yesterday I got a wedding invitation. It was from my secret admired girl. We both know that we love each other but we also understand that we are not meant to be together. She always flirt me (and vice versa) even when she's with her boyfriend. Today she's getting married, and she invite me. Should I come ?
2 responses
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
26 May 07
Hello,neo_knights,honestly i have no idea whether you should go or not.But as you said,you and her love each other, why cannot you two get along together? Will you feel regret when she get married with another guy or you just want to wish her having a happy marriage? What will you feel when you are in the wedding party? Will you pretend you do not love her? Anyway,i think it is hard to make a decision for you. Good luck.
• Indonesia
28 May 07
Gee, thanks easy888...You seem the only person who response. Anyway at the last minute I decided to go to the party, and you know what, I felt like I don't have any burden anymore, no regret and she did too. I looked in her eyes and I saw there's no regret inside. I feel so comfort. But unfortunately I get sick after the party, maybe the mushroom had a little bit too old and toxic. I can;t sleep the whole night. But my heart is at ease. Thanks easy888 for your attention..
• United States
28 May 07
Oh dear, I saw this thread only now! I wish I had made a response earlier! I hope you're ok, neo_knights! I agree with easy888. Attending a wedding shouldn't be a problem. Just think of it as another event in your life, and a chance to let go. Now as for the mushrooms, I hope you're feeling better now and that you can experience life and enjoy it once again! Life is always beautiful; remember that:)
@gharinder (2044)
• India
28 May 07
oh dear sorry, actually when i usually open your discussions, i find out they are too complicated to be answered by me, since they mostly revolver around computers. anyway, its good you have gone to the marriage, and more important still is to live in present, so just move on, and dear sorry about the mushroom , hope you re fine now
• Indonesia
1 Jun 07
Oh it's OK... The party was elegant and great, just like a prince wedding. Maybe it cost about $30.000. Yeah, the mushroom. Fortunately my stomach is quite sensitive so the mushroom was rejected to enter my body. In the morning I threw up and the mushroom is still indigested.