In Your Age Now, How Many Times You Fall Inlove Already???
By Gwapako_28
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
Philippines
May 26, 2007 3:38am CST
I was thought that we only fall inlove once. But based on my own experienced. We could be fall inlove many times. I cant even count how many times i already fall inlove now that i am 29 years old. Hahaha!!!Stupid heart!!!
My first time is when i am only 15 years old. He is my first love. Then to my xhusband. Then to my ex bf after a year of my separation with my xhusband. Then lately but i am unsure because i am trying to hold my feelings. I have fears of having broken hearts again.
Its really hard to trust and give all your heart to someone. Because at the end when you get hurt and broken, you will be the one to sacrifice. And mind you, not easy to handle broken hearts...
Am i right? Or wrong??? Any opinion or your own experiences???
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14 responses
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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26 May 07
oh i would say until i was through my early 20s i fell in love almost once a week. I think our bodies try out new feelings with emotional responses when we go through adolescence. I then met my husband when i was 24 and realised when you really fall in love there is no doubt. I think it happens only once in a life time
blessed be
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@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
26 May 07
Yeah you are right. I am still hoping that i will meet my soulmate soon and someday. And be my love of my life till the end of time.
@rpetronilia (18)
• Netherlands Antilles
27 May 07
I myself has really fall in love for five times. But we have to consider our Karma. Due to the compromises we ourself committed in to the past, we are attracting them today as a consequence of our past acts.
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@toe_ster (770)
• United States
27 May 07
You can fall in love millions of times over million of things. The heart is a mysterious thing. It is all part of the love cycle. To fall, to feel, to break and to heal. But once you have had a taste of it, it is hard to abstain from it. even when you know it will hurt. You do tend to be a little more guarded, but you can't help or stop falling in love. I am only 25 adn think i have fallen in love with each of my children(i have 3) ten times over. As for guys, maybe3. I know definately of 2. My husband and my ex bf. I have fallen in love with love. I have fallen for each of my nieces and nephews. It is life
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@gretats (63)
• Philippines
27 May 07
I know it is hard to fall in love because you would have to put a lot on the line. :) But it is a great feeling that is why we allow it. I think that in a lifetime, a person falls in love not only once... but more, a whole lot more. And then... theres this thing we call "falling out of love"... that happens a lot too. I know I've fallen in love before, I must have because I could spout endlessly about it. And what I have learned is, from my 18 years of "experience", lolx, that it is okay to risk your heart and fall hopelessly in love because the experience is what we're after anyways. The experience of falling in love and living life, because thats what life basically is right? Our need to feel that thing we call "love". So, it would be worth all the hassle.
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@seashore124 (48)
• China
27 May 07
HaHa i have not get marriage.I am 22 years now.But I have fallen in love three times.In fact the first love is very precious for me.I love him in my heart.Now he has his own life.We became good friends.Now my boyfriend is good to me.He loves me very well.I think we should cherish what we have now.Foeget the passed.Because it can not come back.Am I right?Hope you have a good love.^-^
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@Phlamingho (7824)
• Denmark
26 May 07
LOL well it's normal in your teens to fall in love all the time right? :-D I agree that it can happen more than once. :-)
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@bindishah (2062)
• India
26 May 07
In my life of 28 years Ive truly been in love twice. My first relationship lasted 4 years and I never expected it to end. It hurt a lot and you feel you wont fall in love again. But now here i am in another one since 10 months. But if this does not work I know i wont get into another one - its not worth all the pain.
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
26 May 07
ou are right. My first boyfriend was when I was 14. I think that was really the first time I felt hurt after he broke up with me.Then by I guy I dated for a while in 1995 it didn't last long but I feel hard and got hurt pretty bad then I dadtes but I was never really to involed with anyone to much intill I got married and that didn't last to long either not even a year. He is remarried now and they have a little girl. I had one boyfriend since him but it didn't last either. Since then i have dated but I am to scared to really get to close or trust any other man yet.
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
26 May 07
I've only ever been in love once. I've had several very strong crushes and attractions, but nothing I would ever have called "love".
It's easy to tell the difference between attraction, infatuation and love if you can really pay attention to your true heart and not fly off the handle every time you become attracted to someone. I have always been able to tell the difference and I'm grateful for that since I never had to really put up with the teen drama BS. And thankfully, I found my love early on and won't have to put up with the dating scene BS either.
Good luck.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
26 May 07
I have fallen in love many times in the past also. I have also had my heart broken by several men. I always get in a relationship and do everything that I can to hold it together but then it all falls apart every time. I am happily married now though and we have been together for 15 years and married for 12 of those. I was afraid to have my heart broken again also and still am. It is very hard to deal with.
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@MJLami (1173)
• United States
26 May 07
Love is a yearning we all have and want. That special someone who truly is our other half to share life and love with. We all want whomever it is we're dating to be that one until it's over. We all want to believe that one is the one until it's no more and then we move on to the next person we think we love until we finally meet that one that no one else can be compared to. No one else can measure up to. And then we know this is love and all the ones before were just "practice". I look forward to you meeting that one that makes all those loves you've had disappear and not ever be thought of again. That will be a far greater love for you to know than any you've yet known. I promise you!
@schersey_10 (75)
• Philippines
26 May 07
Ive been inlove four times. My girlfriend now is my fourth girlfriend. I believe she's the one i will live the rest of my life with.
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