have u ever asked for a baby?
By jean_gomez3
@jean_gomez3 (105)
Philippines
October 23, 2006 2:25am CST
i am married for 7 years but unfortunately we dont have a baby yet.we are not blessed right?
5 responses
@Billabongbabe (348)
• United States
23 Oct 06
It does not mean that you are not blessed. You just may not be able to carry a child. Don't look at it that way because what if it's Gods way of letting you know your body is not able to handle it. In pregnancy your body goes through so many changes it takes a big toll on you. There is always adoption and there is nothing wrong with that. Adopt a newborn so you can have a closer bond with it if you have been trying for seven years. I hope everything works out and don't be discouraged.
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@crimsonblues (1191)
• United States
22 Feb 07
A baby does not make you blessed.. You dont have to have children to be a productive human being.. I want a baby more than anything in the world and I pray for the ability to have a child. It happens - it may take you a while. Don't give up, don't stop trying and please don't blame yourself. Medical science is amazing - hopefully you'll have your baby before you know it.
@jean_gomez3 (105)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
thanks crimsonblues,for your wonderful words and encouragement..it added my strength and confidence.thanks!!!!
@britishyip (1609)
• India
28 Oct 06
dont ever feel like that..
i married two yrs back, and our first kid was aborted due to medical reason..
me and my wife was feeling very bad, that time my mom told me that always beleive in god.. you'll get whatever you want..
so i wanna tell you the same. have trust on his honesty.. his is only true power.
you'll get a kid soon..
god bless you..
@jean_gomez3 (105)
• Philippines
22 Nov 06
Thanks for the wonderful words and advises.God bless you too....
@Phlamingho (7825)
• Denmark
22 Nov 06
I'm asking not to get one. I don't relly like children. But I know it's hard when you want a child but can't get pregnant.