I am the luckiest girl to have a perfect stepfather and i hate my real father!!!

It was a revelation to me when I reached adulthood that parents are just ordinary people. Some are better at raising children than others. Others are incapable but because they stuck around, you get stuck with it. Of course they always have a special place in your life, but just because they are your parents do not make them some kind of deities. They do what they are capable of doing, and hope for the best. I am glad your life granted you this kind of relationship. See, not all adult males are bad :)