Do u wish ur spouse to be virgin??
By shashank1986
@shashank1986 (625)
India
9 responses
@teison2 (5921)
• Norway
26 May 07
I think this is a cultural thing. Where I am from people are usually not virgins when they marry - if they ever marry. I actually do not know one single person that was a virgin when they got married. So If I hooked up with someone that was a virgin until we married i would think it was a bit strange
@shashank1986 (625)
• India
26 May 07
well u c i didnt mean do u want to MARRY a virgin...wat i mean is do u want to be a partner of a non-virgin(with or without marriage)...plz revise ur views..anyway thanx for the reply
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@debarchana1987 (105)
• India
28 May 07
relationship is something pure and divine..its a bond that hold us together....the relationship betwen a husband and a wife is also full of wonders..loosing virginity definitely means my spouse had been someone elses which i wud never accept...i wud want my spouse to be a virgin..being virgin or not is not only provoked by culture,traditons but also of ones mentality...
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@Galena (9110)
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27 May 07
when my partner and I first started sleeping together, I was a virgin and he knew that.
I never asked him if he was, because it wasn't an issue.
I actually think he might have been, but what happened before is none of my business really.
it's who he's with now that counts.
@shashank1986 (625)
• India
27 May 07
u said him u r virgin n never asked if he was??
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@JanMags (724)
• Philippines
26 May 07
I don't want to be condemned for my opinion or to be seen as a moralist but to be honest, I do prefer to marry a virgin. I think there's just something special about a person who has held out for so long just to do it with the right person. Then again, there are also others who have lost their virginity before marriage because they simply feel there is nothing wrong with that. I suppose they are also entitled to their own preferences.
@silvernutbar (904)
• United States
28 May 07
It doesn't matter much to me if my significant other was a virgin when we met. It would matter greatly if we hadn't slept together and she WAS a virgin before meeting me, but wasn't when we finally got in the sack. I'm more interested in if I can trust a woman than if she's been ridden more times than sea biscuit.
@carryli (875)
• China
26 May 07
This is a old topic,in China,many people like to called a man who care his wife is not virgin as virgin love knot.Though there are more and more men claimed that they do not care their spouse is not virgin,they still have a little grudges.I also care my spouse is not virgin.