Help Needed!

I think some of the stuff you could do to help out would be the diapers, help with keeping the house clean, laundry, maybe fix your girlfriend a nice dinner, and a big help is getting up with the baby so she can sleep a little. I was so tired when I came home from the hospital, my husband had to go back to work, and I felt so overwhelmed with trying to do the everyday stuff and take care of the baby. If I could have had a little help with the small things, it would have made things so much easier. I would have loved to have had someone to sing to my son and get him to sleep so I could get some rest. I think you will do just fine. If anything, just ask your girlfriend what you can do that would help her out.

LOL awwww too cute. ok well offer to let mom sleep while you take babe even if its only for 30min, give baby baths umm change babies diaper as you have been doing. Cook dinner or lunch for your girlfriend just offer to do little things that you don't really think are a big deal. Go shopping for her if she seems warn out the little things usually help the most

You have been given some good advice as to help you babies' mother but you also need to bond with that little tyke. You can do that by just holding him/her and reading to him/her. It's never too early to start reading to the littel tyke. It could become a bed time ritual. Talk to him/her about how you love Mommie and why you love her. she'll be listening and probably love to hear it too.

you can be a good dad in many ways and not pressuring your self. there's so many things you can do though it really requires a lot to be a good father. im a father too.

well i aint had kids (yet :-O) but im hoping my partner is going to be very supportive of me. understanding is a big one to so he knows its not him if im in a bad mood or stressed out. im also hoping that he will take some time each nite with the baby whether it be bathing or just watching over it whilst i chill out. of course its not always going to be possible but it would even be nice if one day out of the week you tried to give her a day to herself :-)

One things is to be there, let them know that you will always be there for them, babies love attention, the only things that they continue to live for is the love and attention they get from their parents. Babies will remember you doing this in their hearts and in the back of there minds for as long as they live and will in turn show that love back to you as they grow older.