publicly harassed!

If you"ll leave honey out in open, bees sure will come. Try wearing those clothes of which others don't react in the way you had reaction.

Once such an incident happened with me. I was in the 10th standard, and was on a trip with my family. We were then waiting for a bus in a bus stand. I was walking in the place to pass the time. Suddenly a guy passing by, intentionally brushed against me and did hurt me. I instantly went went after him, caught him by his shirt's collar, and screamed. In the second instance, my father took over, and started kicking and punching him, and didn't show him any mercy. I became slightly embarrased by the incedent, but still didn't care much.

I've had it happen to me when I was in a bar. I made the guy be embarassed by shouting something and everyone stared at him, it was one of those moments that everyone stopped talking at the same time so everyone heard me call him a disguisting pervert. Kudos to you for standing up to yourself.

Thank God I haven't been publicly harassed but my cousin have. She wasn't even wearing short skirt or shorts but jeans. She was going up an escalator at a mall when a guy grabbed one of the cheeks of her a** then ran. He probably thought she wouldn't run after him but she did and she started calling the attention of the security guards there until the guy got caught. She really wanted to punch him in the face but he begged her and told her that she's a teacher. What a big jerk and to think he was a teacher and setting that kind of bad example! So, my cousin just reported him and handed him over to the guards.

nurhoney i shouldn't say this but as i am a boy i think i must respond to this topic(pls take me as a friend). if you were in my country and any boy or man ever tried to do this with u it might well be the last day for him as he would have surely got nicely from the public. apart from this u would be also blamed of waring such dress which made him to do that. i know it can be quite difficult for u but, sometimes being male is a sin as we get easily attracted by girls and come to this stage of making a fool of our self. at that moment u just wont be able to make out what is wrong and what is right. yesterday only while talking to my friend i suddenly looked back and found my friend's sister passing by. the moment i sow her i found my friend telling to me that she was his sister. i never had bad intension on my had its just that i sow her like a normal human being. sometimes we boys don't mean what we do or commit its just out manhood instinct. we never mean it. but let me make it clear that all boys don't think like i do there are some boys who purposefully do it stay away from this kind of people. God bless.

You were probably irresistible, hehehe! well what the guy did to you was unacceptable and good thing you did not just let it go. I admire your courage for slapping him and kicking him, but know that in some cases it is best to just ignore it. The reason for that is for some pople they dont get arouse from touching they get sexually stimulated by the kind of reaction they get from the victim.

Wow this is fiecre man !!! i mean you never he could be not on purpose to touch your legs isn't it and you kicked him and slapped him lol ... Woman is really fiecre

I'm just glad he didn't hit you back or worse, as I've often heard happen to women who fight back when me do that with hitting. If that is your own picture that you are using, I'd have to say I'm not even half as cute as you are and I get harassed all the time. And, I don't even wear short skirts or anything else, except when I ride my bike. There have been times where I couldn't leave my home with some guy harassing me. But, by harassing I mean lewd comments, cat-calling, honking horns, or following me. What happened to you was an assault and you should have called the cops.

Sorry to your bad experience... I'm being a guy, I can say my stand.. I do not do it intentionally to anybody. Avoid wearing such revealing dresses, but you have the freedom to choose what you wear, but understand that guys may turn on (Depends on place and guy) with such dresses sometime, it increase the risk, some guys don't know themselves what they are doing after turning on. Another thing, In a country like India, in some places bushes will be having very rush, people strive to stand inside the bus, minis skirts will be problem at that time any guy or girl passover may unknowingly touch legs. Sometime such dresses make us heat, Indians may feel little bit higher than Filipinos, but let not be a reason for that. Thanks.

You had get him to the police so that he will nver repeat it..

I'm just echoing what some of the guys had said regarding this issue. If you wear revealing clothes and sexy outfit and the way you carry them you do in a way contribute to increasing chances of being harassed. Kinda like when a girl wears a hooker outfit yes it does not mean she is a hooker but she is wearing a hooker uniform -- and for some guys that is very confusing. I think it has been mentioned several times, and I agree that if you feel like you can wear whatever you want then know also that some men will do whatever they want if they see you in such outfit. I wonder what your hubby thinks about this when it happened to you -- does he know? With the ex GF's that I had I usually say something when they about to wear sexy and revealing outfit out in public and they are not with me. I did not stop them but I did warn them when they go out in public places like that it's kinda like going to an open market where some people thinks anything goes and they better be prepared to deal with those kinds of people.

its on the taste of the individual to wear clothes so we cant harras any one for this.but we sud not wear any dress that wud provoke others to assault us..but from your reaction it seems u r vary brave..thats good.for my case i always try to wear that our society and culture permits us

Well, doesn't happen to guys as often. Still, i've had it happen.. and I was like.. what.. the hell.. I had a guy call me sweet pea before, and ever so gently touch my shoulder. honestly you see my avatar.. do I look like anyone's sweetpea? lol. Almost feel sorry for the drunk idiot now.. i've often wondered what brick tastes like, maybe I should ask him if I ever see him again.

that's terrible.. i've had similar experiences, whenever i wear something sexy, guys would shout out inappropriate comments that make me feel like the cheapest girl to walk on earth. it's really annoying and i always feel tempted to go tell my guy punch the lights out of 'em no good losers.

If a man had ever done that to me i'd have done the same thing, I don't wear short skirts often though so i've never experienced that. I hate it when men sit there and treat you like eye candy when your just going to the grocery store, its like hello i'm not a freaken steak for you to drool over.

Yes I have and I'm a guy! I liked it, but I no what your sayin cuz I have placed women in that same situation. You can't help what people think or how they percive you when you go out in public dressed a certin way! I know you/women should be able to wear what they want when they/you go out but the general public don't know you and if you have a short skirt on showing a lot of skin, folks are going to look at you in a certin way and the incident that you just went through may repeat itself later on down the road, so choose your atire carefully, and check out my site http://ESASINSWEAR.SHIRTCITY.COM LET me know what you think. It;s great summer time aparel to help you look even more sexY.

I think you did the right thing. Otherwise he would have gone farther

Ha ha ,you must be pretty! If i have a chance to face that thing ,i think what i do is objected to you ! thanks

When girls wear such tempting dresses, it is very normal for us to look at them. Most of the times we think that they wear such kind of dresses to show it. So we feel that we have been given permission to see. But i never behaved touched or grabbed some one, but i used to stare from faroff. And about what u have done, You did it right. One got to resist the temptation in public and not behave such indecently. But if he accidentally touched your leg, you have daone ahell of mistake. Let me be very frank, you cant expect not be tpuched ina crowded public bus, exposing your body

Never experienced this yet, maybe you just have to refrain from wearing noticeable or striking bottoms when you're in a public place or if you'll be riding on a public transpo. Its much safer that way=)