Do You Have Someone To Talk To When Your Feeling Down?

I have friends I can talk to about things or problems that are bothering me--and that's okay when it's at a fairly decent hour...the problem is...I guess I feel the same as you...sometimes those problems or things that are bothering you and hit you when its just too darn late to talk to anyone---I guess my "cure" for it is to just keep myself busy to distract myself and not think about it...I also know how you feel too...everyone has there share of s*** that they're dealing with in life, and to tell people about your own problems can be a downer on them...I know I personally don't like it myself...I know one friend, my "butt" friend..LOL, who is a real whiner...I mean it is one thing to talk about one's hardships once in awhile..but all the time? Uh, nope.....So I try not to be too much of a pest with my own issues I'm dealing with...at least not constantly anyway...LOL

Ohh Buddy budz budz.. Dont you know that you are my best buddy here on myLot?? I have been adding you in my list everytime I get booted **oops*** and yet, you didnt even tried to open up with me.. too bad... huhuhu.. LOL.. anyway.. seriously speaking.. You always make me smile with your posts... You can talk as my friend, joker, father, grandpa? lol just kidding.. Next time you can contact me whenever you need someone to talk to.. Im an insomniac person so its worth listening to you to kill time lol.. Do you need my Phone#? ym? or how bout my address? so you can personally and lets talk about your problem one on one! Take care budz!

Yes. I do have someone to talk to when my feeling are down. But i know that in the last few years i rather not talk to someone when my feelings are down, but to look at the situation, to analyze it and to see why i am feeling like that and solve it by myself. It does give me a feeling that i have more control of my life, and that i am strong enough to solve my problems. i do believe that somtimes when we talk to others too much about our problems, it becomes an easy unsolvable pattern of life for us. So i am trying other way to solve it. You must remember that we have everything inside that can solve out down situation. We can help ourselves. We can think more simply, usually when we have problems they are because we feel we need to have them, to have a kind of catharsis. The question is why do you think that you are weary by acting and thinking the way you described here? I think you are just fine. :)

well, first and foremost, let me thankyou for responding on one of my discussions..as a return, i would like to respond to yours too... when im down, most of the time i just keep on myself...i dont want others to know my feelings..but when it is unbearable, i talk with my partner about what i feel..

I'm very fortunate as I have a husband to talk to. If you ever need someone to talk to my door is open. You are not bothering us with your problems. Is that not what friendship is about?

Yes,I do have friends that I could share my problems with,but same as you, when I want to talk to someone late in the evening and there's no one I could talk to I just pray.

That's why I truly love this site my friend, it's not because of the money that keeps bringing me back day after day, it's the wonderful community and in particular my friends. I actually use and I'm first to admit it this site as counseling, because I know that whenever I have a problem, need support or need someone to talk to I have my wonderful friends on Mylot to confide in!

Me too. I don't have anybody to talk to when I am down. I love talking to someone so that the burden will be lessen. I hope one day I would be able to find that someone. God bless.

ya, i always have my wife alongside me whenever i am feeling low. she is there to encourage me.

aw bud, Anytime your down just send me an I'm. I'm here and im a good listener. Sometimes i get myself into trouble because Im too open and nice to people but I will always be here for my friends. Dont worry we all have problems.

I think it is not try to go to sleep when you are troubled. Surely there must be someone.No? Personaly I more often than not solve my own problems. It is better tho when the situations resolve themselves. That is always a relief! Maybe there is some of us here at MyLot can help you. see a lot of that...

i do have, but i wonder if they really care 'bout the reason why i'm feeling down...though they seems very good listener, i just still wishing to read what's really on their mind when i'm telling/sharing them my down moment...