Why?????

The reason that this occurs is because he is a "control freak".....he wants to control everything that happens and when it happens...think back...it has been this way every since you became involved with him.... In the beginning of a new relationship, you see that person that they want you to see...slowly the "real" person will reveal themselves...this type of person will become violent to maintain their "power" over you...they will try to remove you from any other outside influence so that you are totally controlled by them....they will encourage you to break ties with your friends and family members...which gives them further control.... I know that it is difficult to begin over, yet again, but you are lucky enough to have parents who will be here to help you...even if you have to listen to some of that "we tried to warn you"...they have still always been there for you....ALWAYS!!! Use this as a door to the future and do not look back except to remember the lessons that you have learned from this relationship...use it as a learning experience and move forward.....

Well, i guess its self comforting for the other party who tried saying mean words to hurt u... I mean, people are always like that... Let's say that a couple just got out of the relationship and it's because one party gives up on the other... Tendacy is that the one who gave up first will tend to say bad things and make the partner even believe that the break up is caused by him or her... Dun think so much... I guess since its over... Just let go.. Lets things be happier.. The sky is wider and brighter out there... =)

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Boy oh boy are you better off without him. If he has to call and pester you then it's a good thing you have decided to move on! Good luck with getting your stuff back.