Have you hated a person?
By JcHitomi
@JcHitomi (100)
Nepal
May 27, 2007 10:56pm CST
Yes I do, I think I hate my sister, because shes the only one in the family that never treats me one of the family. I mean she never respects me even in little things and I feel that she treat me as a different person, yes a total stranger. Yup, we hardly talk and if sometimes we talked we always ended up a figh, an arguement that I think never lasts. She keeps recording my wrong doings and do I. And what I pissed so off she keeps telling me that all over again. She irritates me and she always making a way to lose my patience. I care for her but I dont know why she always give me reasont to hate her. I guess she hates me too. Is this right? hating a sister, hating one person in the family? Do you hate someone in your family too?
What will I do now to stop this feeling, I dont certainly want to hate her.
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5 responses
@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
29 May 07
hi there, i totally feel for you because i have two sisters that i dont really like, i mean i dont hate them or what becasue i gave up the word hate when i was growing up...they are rather mean and bitter persons and i just get away from them. i don't really know why they are such hateful persons and anger is the second word that cames into miy mind when i think of them.
Hate is such a strong word, i gave up on it because it is eating my personality and it is like a cancer that spreads inside your body..when you hate youre boud to get irate..as the song goes. It is such a heavy feeling to carry and i dont need such burden in my life..so let go of it, now im a better person than them. Thank God for that...so let go of it my friend and pray to God that feeling will be replaced with Love and understanding.
@g3n3j0rd (721)
• Philippines
29 May 07
She's your sister and it's not good for both of you to be ignoring or fighting each other often. You don't have to hate each other. Show love towards her and control yourself when you feel like fighting back. Pray for her and show her goodness. I'm sure she would feel the difference and would respond to your goodness. Exert extra effort to be more loving towards her, after all she's your sister.
@ranjeetkolarkar (1595)
• India
7 Jun 07
i have hated many people for all the right and wrong reasons..
but i do not continue hating a person for long. very soon i find myself to be again on good terms with the person.
@spiderdollar (298)
• India
28 May 07
Yes i hated a person and still i hate that person a lot. He is my class 10 class teacher. he is very rude and he even didn't know how to talk with a student. his behavior was very bad he didn't know any manner and i don't know why he scolded me almost every day without any reason.
