When HE proposes.....
By rangics
@rangics (1334)
Philippines
May 28, 2007 4:49am CST
What in the world will a girl do if her man PROPOSES? Envision yourself in a very romantic situation..Dinner by candlelight, wines being served with a very lovely music on the background. The problem is here: YOU ARE NOT READY FOR IT? What will you do? How will you handle the situation if he reacts VIOLENTLY? (hehhee, i just do hope he wouldn't..) What will you do to make him at ease with your unexpected answer? That would be hard i guess?.? Hope you guys can share your thoughts about this..Thanks!^_*
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@Phlamingho (7825)
• Denmark
28 May 07
LOL hopefully when some proposes it's because both people in the realtionship wants it. If you are not ready I guess you'll just have to tell him. If you know what's coming you might as well stop him early.
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@Sasselle (698)
• Australia
28 May 07
Simply your answer would either be yes or no. If you are not ready to get married and don't want to be engaged then just say so and why you don't. If they love you then they'd want you to be happy and they should respect that.
If they react violently then you are better off without them. No one deserves having violence in their life and why someone would want to be married for life to someone like that is beyond me.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
13 Jun 07
Do you mean that you love him but you are not ready to marry him or anyone?Or do you mean you like him but you don't love him? Well if you love him but you are not ready, break it to him gently. Tell him that if you were to marry anyone now, it would be him. And ask him to give you time to get ready to marry. But if you don't love him, tell him that you don't love him nicely.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
29 May 07
Wow, I dont know what to feel. Maybe it would be the happiest and the scariest day of my life. I dont know if i am going to be ready for such a news.
@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
17 Jun 07
Say something like, "Wow sweetheart, I'm flattered, and you know I love you, but this is a huge step that I'm not sure I'm ready for yet. Can we talk about it for a bit first before I make my decision?".
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@beauty_ph (2749)
• Philippines
28 May 07
I will try to be very honest to this person I love. I know he will understand if I lay my cards and discuss the reasons. It has to be "Not now, but I really love to get marry after ... blah blah explainations.
@mycharm88 (2288)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
Huh!maybe scary for me, but i guess if i'm not really ready yet, then i would have to tell him not now... I think if he loves me that much then he would definitely understand. Nobody can force me to do anything but myself. Why would i plunge into a situation wherein i might have regrets in the end, right?
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