my girlfriend is not a virgin,I am very sad and confused ,please help me!

for how long have be in that relationship? have u eva dig deep with her to know either she is virgin? if not take it not a blame. i implore you to ask her further how come about it. besides she might had raped by those rapiest

My first question for you is, are you a virgin? If not, why are you holding her to a double standard? Second, you say that you like living with her. Not that you love her, but that you just like living with her. And that you want to possess her (women hate this, by the way. She's not cattle, she's a person. And people make mistakes). If you don't love her, then let her go. If you do love her, then get over it and be with her already. What she's done in the past doesn't matter. The important thing is that she's faithful while she's with you. Right?

I'm sorry to have to say this, but your wife belongs to no man. She and her body both belong to herself. The fact that she willingly gave away her virginity is her concern only, it has nothing to do with you. You can't turn back time so you'll just have to accept it. If you have a great relationship with her and wish to stay with her for the rest of your life, does the fact that she's no longer a virgin really matter so much? Just look inside yourself and see how much you love her, it should be the only thing that matters.

If you're living together, I'm going to assume you have an intimate relationship now. It's seems a bit of a contridiction to think she should have waited for marriage but she should sleep with you before marriage. What matters is not whether or not she was a virgin; but whether you are ready to commit to the future together. The past can't be undone. Your partner has had some experience, so what? She wants to be with you, she loves you and she is willing to commit to you; that's what should matter.