how do you call your partner?

Philippines
May 28, 2007 4:33pm CST
i dont know if "pet names" are still used my partners nowadays. i am one of those who still uses it. i call my girlfriend "beh" and she calls me the same. for me its just a sweet way to tell her how much i adore her. do you still use pet names or just call your partner by name?
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@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
29 May 07
I agree with some of the others. Before my wife, i never used pet names for anyone. But we routinely call each other baby, sweetie, honey. Mostly it's, hey, baby? First names only usually get used in very serious conversations, or situations. Or when there's mock trouble play. At which point first and middle names get tossed around. It's a very hard habit to break. The first year we were together, before we were married, we broke up for a couple of weeks over some misunderstandings, but still communicated. It was one of the hardest things i ever had to do was not call her baby. Thank goodness i didn't have to break that habit! We've been together 6 years and counting.
@ljcapps (1925)
• United States
29 May 07
It does make it stronger. There's no one else out there that i call baby, or sweetie, or honey. When i say that, she knows i'm talking directly to her, or about her. Especially when it's, that's my baby. LOL This is a very good discussion. It's something that my wife and i are so used to with each other that we don't even really talk about it. We still hold hands in public, and kiss lightly before one of us gets out of the car. I still pinch her butt when we're walking around at the grocery store. LOL I guess we're very lucky in this. We've had our share of hard times with each other, but rather than give up, we worked hard to stay together. And now, all that has paid off, and we're very happy.
• Philippines
29 May 07
6 years and counting!?! wow... at least you still continue calling each other a pet name. pet names usually strengthen the relationship.. it makes the romance sweeter... it makes your partner feel special as well... it diffuses anger if there's misunderstanding at the same time.
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• Philippines
29 May 07
lol talk about being truly in love! thank you for sharing this to us. stay in love forever! ;)
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
29 May 07
Me and my boyfriend calls each other "asawa ko" which in english means, my husband or my wife. lol. We got the idea from our classmates...and we somehow adopted it and started calling each other that. hehe
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
29 May 07
its not really that unique here in the Philippines..lol. The pet names that me and my ex use to had is the unique one. He calls me "wis" , i call him "gas" hehe, he got it from a local tv show here, called mulawin...the characters that he took the name from is -forgot the name-, but uhm, their lovers as well and their both kinda like in a different type of world. So, even if I don't watch that...I agreed, cause it sounds unique and sweet. hehe
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• Philippines
30 May 07
are the characters pagaspas and lawiswis? lol.. some lovers also get their idea of pet names from their favorite movies or television series.. still sweet though. ;)
• Philippines
29 May 07
lol thats a unique one! thanks..
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• United States
30 May 07
My ex and I were together almost 7 years... I called him Monk and he called me ms. monk. We both like monkeys... so that's where it came from.
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• United States
30 May 07
nah, he hated that show.
• Philippines
30 May 07
lol really? i though it's based on the television series "the monk!" thanks for sharing...
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@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
28 May 07
For the longest time my husband and I have called each other sweetie. I don't even know how it got started because I was never one to use pet names before lol. It even feels weird if I have to call him by his real name somewhere lol.
• Philippines
28 May 07
its sweet that you still call each other sweetie now that you are married. most of the time married couple will be embarrassed to call each other pet names.. but am glad there are still few who do. thanks
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29 May 07
ok ok, i will confess, although we call each other baby, and i tell my friends "bi tch" but when no one is around we have our own special pet names, and it all started 10 years ago, the day we got together as a couple..... i call her baby carrot, as shes small, 5ft and a bit! as she likes to say! lol and she would call me giant pea, as im alot taller than her, at a height of 6 ft 2, so we have always said we are like a traditional plate, one doesnt look good with out the other, carrots and peas...... and on each anniversary or special occasion, when its time to hand over a card or present, it will always have, to my special "baby carrot" or to my "humongus giant pea"! but i really didnt wanna put this down, but seein as everyone els is being honest, i figured, i may aswell me honest aswell, although my 1st comment was not a lie either, just not the whole truth
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• Philippines
30 May 07
congratulations! now you need to change the b* pet name! lol...
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• Philippines
29 May 07
lol thanks for the confession. i truly appreciate sharing it to us. you have a very unique way of calling each other.. havent heard anyone calling her partner carrot or another veggie.. lol.. and you still call each other that after ten years? what can i say but love.. love... love.. i love the b* name though.. lol.. thanks again
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30 May 07
thanx, but guess wot everyone, im a very happy person right now!!! my partner has gone into labour 8 days early, but i dont care, im GONNA BE A DADDY! :-D
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29 May 07
i call my partner baby no matter where we are, i dont care wot ppl think, its my life, but thats only what i call her, if i was interducin her to friends, id say, "this is my bi tch" or she would say, "im his bi tch", theres no real meaning to it, its just something that happend, and we both see the funny side to it!
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• Philippines
29 May 07
i kinda like what you call each other with the B*.. id like to try that.. but yeah you shouldnt be bothered by other people when you call your partner baby or other "pet names" thanks
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@happybabe (206)
• China
2 Jun 07
I don't call him by name.I usually call him "idiot".Maybe this is not a beautiful word,but I really like to use it .He calls me the same.Maybe that's a special way to express our feeling.It is funny by calling and be called idiot.hahahaha Is it interesting ?
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• Philippines
2 Jun 07
lol thats funny.. i think theres nothing wrong with that "pet name" as long as you have agreed to be called as that, and thats the way you really express your feelings. id like to try that with my girlfriend.. ;) thanks
• Philippines
29 May 07
i call my husband 'mahal', a filipino term for love :) it is our term of endearment for more than three years now and it still works. it expresses how much we love each other.
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• Philippines
29 May 07
I call my partner 'love' because I truly love him. I would have called him 'mahal', which is the Filipino word for love but I think that it would be too cheesy already here. Hehe!
@dons626 (404)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
My boyfriend and I just celebrated our 4th year together. We call each other 'kepo' its a chinese word meaning 'to know everything' in tagalog 'pinapakialaman lahat ng bagay', we used to say that word as an expression and soon we were calling each other that word. Funny though coz its not the usual sweet words or pet names as you may call it. But i dont mind :), we will be getting married this september :)
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• Philippines
2 Jun 07
first, congratulations! wow lots of people i meet here in mylot are getting married! though i still dont know you that much, am so happy for you.. four years really prove that you love each other! back to the "kepo" yeah its not the usual pet name and im quite surprise you two agreed on being called that! lol.. thanks for the response and again congrats
@tala91285 (1074)
• Philippines
29 May 07
Me and my boyfriend call each other "Love". It has a story behind it that's why we started calling each other that. Sometimes, we call each other other names too like "Hun", "Babe", "Baby", "Dear", etc. but "Love" is really what we use ^_^
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• Philippines
29 May 07
common share the story of why you call each other love.. wed love to hear your story.. lol..
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@el_jeffo (750)
• Philippines
29 May 07
Yes share it plz
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@tala91285 (1074)
• Philippines
29 May 07
We started calling each other that even before we officially became a couple. There's this obscure song that you probably haven't heard of yet if you aren't a fan of songs from anime series. The song basically describes what's been going on between us...so that's how it started. Lol sometimes we call each other "Lovepuff" or he adds "-bunny" to my name and I add "-cake" to his name ^_^