Would You Rather Have Someone Need You or You Need Them?

United States
May 28, 2007 8:16pm CST
Okay let me explain, in a relationship there is always the one person needs the person more then the other. So which are you in your relationship? Well I have a situation. There two guys one is an older man who you can look to for advice helps you when you need him and is emotionally there for you. he makes you a BETTER PERSON. Then you have a man your age or alittle older who looks to you for comfort constantly, comes to you for advice, looks for your approval and love constantly. You make him a BETTER PERSON. Who do you pick? they are both great guys, but is it better to be needed? See I think feeling like your needed is important. I think all people want it. What you guys think? and I'm not just talking about romantic relationships this can apply to just friendships as well. I have plenty of friends that i rely on all the time to go to my problems and other friends that come to me all the time to cry on my shoulder. SO what's everyone think about this..
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@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
29 May 07
I want to be the needed person. When I make a person better, it would be a fulfillment in my life. I am here because they need me in everything i can and as long as I can. To provide comfort and love is great as if your mission is ongoing and often accomplished. It would be a great capacity to do and i must be so lucky for that.
• United States
29 May 07
Yes I agree, to be needed and be able to help the person is a great fullfillment. Thanks for your response!