What do you do about a teacher that obviously stinks as a teacher yet they keep?
@hockeygal4ever (10021)
United States
May 29, 2007 12:34am CST
My twins are in 9th grade. I'm not one to blame the teachers every time they get a bad grade but this particular teacher I had when in highschool. He was fresh out of college and I just assumed then that his crappy teaching was because he was inexperienced. WRONG! My kids and just about 75% or more of their class is lost with this man as a teacher. Now to me, when MORE of your class is failing then passing... this is a sign of a problem. It's not the first time it's happened with this man and it's known throughout the school that he really does stink at teaching. In particular he's a math teacher and my guess is that the 25% or less of students passing are students that pretty much grasp math easily anyways OR are getting extra help from other areas and catching on better.
My question is this. As a parent what can I do to get the school district to wake up? The guy is a very nice guy but he sucks as a teacher. The school obviously KNOWS this, numbers prove it, complaining students and parents prove it.
If I complain directly to the office then I'm certain he will know or be told and then we risk him hunting out my kids to make them fail (not like they can do much worse LOL). So many parents haven't even said anything for the same fear. AFTER this year I do intend to write a letter to the school district office and complain there but again, I don't want to mark my kids as "the ones with the trouble making parent". I'm not a very confrontational person so to me it's not really an issue of me being on the warpath.
Any suggestions?
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@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
29 May 07
Wow. I don't know what to say. I don't think it is the teacher. You can disagree all you want.
I was the smart one in the math classes and I saw how dumb the other kids were.
If they do not read, study and do the homework then they will not learn. You can't blame an instructor because some one fails to learn.
It is math. You didn't say geometry, calculus or trig.
Write a letter. Go complain. Do what ever you think will work. But I have seen a lot of people fail math in high school and college.
I went back to college about 5 years ago which put me about 10 years older than the students. The kids today aren't very bright.
This does not apply to your children. I have not attended any classes with them.
If your kids have done all of their home work, read the chapters and have completed all of the problems *not just those assigned* then they should have a passing grade.
Do you help your children study math? Do you make them do math home work every day, even on Saturday and Sunday? If not, I would start there before I complain. They might tell you what I just said.
ps. Don't give me a minus. LOL
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@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
29 May 07
I see it from both sides.
I also heard the questions they asked. I am speaking from my perspective.
So what I am supposed to do is come in here and say "Oh I am so sorry that the teacher is so terrible. What a shame."
Maybe if parents influenced and started teaching their children to learn at an earlier age they might not have problems.
I started reading around 3. It is because someone taught me to read. It wasn't by osmosis.
I think too many parents rely on the TV and VCR to babysit as well as teach their children.
As I stated in my prior comment. The kids in college today are not as bright as my fellow classmates. Some don't even know where China is on a map. How do you get out of high school if you don't know where China is on a map?
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@Gumball (793)
• United States
29 May 07
Because you were the "bright" student, your perception of the others is that they were dumb. That's a very condescending attitude to have. It's also an unfair assumption. I wasn't that good in math and I studied my butt off for that class. That doesn't make me dumb or stupid. It just means I don't grasp math as easily as you do.
ps. Try to see things from someone else's point of view before you spout off next time.
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@Gumball (793)
• United States
29 May 07
So you started reading around 3. Yippee for you. My daughter was reading at 2 and really taught herself by watching the close captioning on her DVDs. She could see the words being said as they were talking. But she still isn't that great in math. She's 7 and is just finishing 1st grade. Does that mean that even though I've worked with her every chance I could from before she started school, that I'm a failure as a parent because she hasn't achieved genius level yet?
You just don't get it. Not everybody is like you, we can't all be math whizkids even with non-stop constant studying. That doesn't make us stupid or dumb or even "slow".
Are you a parent or a teacher? Do you have any kids in school? If not, then you have no idea how kids are taught in school now. I've met with my daughter's teachers and have seen the curriculum they teach including the methods. They do not teach kids like they did 30 and 40 years ago, classes aren't structured in the same way they were when I was a child. That doesn't make them wrong, just different.
If the kids in college don't know where China is, that should tell you that it isn't just the student's fault, it's also their prior teacher's fault for passing them on to the next level when they weren't ready for it. The school is also to blame for graduating students that don't deserve it. The college should also be held accountable for accepting them as students if they didn't get good enough SAT scores. The teacher is there to teach, not babysit. Children go to school to be taught, not be self-taught. If that was the case, schools wouldn't have teachers at all, they'd just be one big playground.
Teachers that aren't doing their job by actually TEACHING kids, should be removed from that job so someone else that can and will do the job right can replace them.
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@toe_ster (770)
• United States
29 May 07
Maybe you can have your kids transfer out. There are some teachers that don't have the 'IT' factorwhen teaching. There is no connection betweenthem and the kid. Like many of the comments already voiced, get a group together. Start apetition to be heard at a formal or informal hearing. Call a teacher/parent/administration meeting. If you take it one stepabove the principal I ams ure that will get the attention. Write a formal complaint signed by other concerned parents and foward it to the principal, the superintendeant and the rest of the school board. There has to be a reason he is still around.
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@hockeygal4ever (10021)
• United States
30 May 07
Unfortunately I already looked into that and because it's a special honors academy they don't have many options for other courses, etc. and this particular course is something that must be taken and only he teaches it. I'm really debating here as to what to do.
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@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
29 May 07
All you can do is either talk to the teacher and see if the person can change their way of teaching or talking to the principal about how ineffective this teacher is with the students. There is really not much else you can do other than send your child to another school. Either this teacher does not know how to teach effectively or this person does not care that he is not getting through to the students. i think teachers should make adjustments while doing their job to find a way to make sure the children understand and are able to learn what he or she is teaching.
@texasclassygal (5305)
• United States
29 May 07
Good luck with that, when my daughter was in High School I contended with a teacher that was the same way, I did everything I thought possible to get that teacher booted out but there was nothing I could do. I even went as far as to get a petition to get him out of teaching, but unless I made criminal charges (which I thought since I was told he was making inappropriate advances to girls) I could not get him out of the school, I could not even take my daughter out of the class. All I did was make his life miserable and in turn he was extra hard on my daughter. Godd luck with that.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
29 May 07
You know the man is probably tenured and unless he does something totally out of line (molesting kids) there is probably not a thing you can do about him. It is unfortunate, my son had more then his share of teachers like that.
I was the the confrontational parent though.
I actually told his elementary school principal ( The kid was on his 2nd time in 4th grade and reading at a 1st grade level and the principal did not see a problem) that the next time they printed the dictionary, next to the word b*tch would be my picture because I was going to redefine the meaning of the word.
His reading help went from 15 minutes a day to over 2 hours a day, by the end of the year, he made it to a 3rd grade reading level.
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@el_jeffo (750)
• Philippines
29 May 07
If many other parents think the same way, then perhaps you can meet as a group, and plan to simultaneously complain about the teacher to the office, as a group of concerned parents. I'm sure that if all parents are complaining, no one will be branded as a "trouble-making parent". Instead, once they see this gesture they will finally see that you are right, and that such a teacher is bad for the students and should be removed.
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@wahmoftwo (1296)
• United States
29 May 07
That is exactly what I was thinking! A group definitly gets more attention!
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@hockeygal4ever (10021)
• United States
30 May 07
Excellent idea. There definitely are quite a few of us that have this thought. I will admit though that most parents tend to take a "just leave it" attitude. I'm sure at this point in time this is the only way he's survived. Sadly, he's also the softball coach and he does win games and often. He was my softball coach too during the day. LOL What's so awkward for me is that I always loved the "coach" side of him but his teaching skills sucked big time. So it kind of bothers me to say something bad about him but then again it bothers me more to let him ruin a vast amount of kids and make them repeat. To be honest... he has a failing rate of something like 50% on average through the years! It's unreal.
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@jerryn (819)
• United States
30 May 07
I suggest you and as many of the other parents get together to brainstorm about how to approach this. There is power in numbers. This man sounds like a hinderance to the future of the childrens' future to proceed further as they progress to the school ranks and on to college if desired. The children are our future and they are dependent upon parents to stand up for their rights.
@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
30 May 07
This stinks! You would think with all of this state testing- and the No child left behind- that the teachers would have to be ok- I know they test the kids to see how much they are learning at an early age- My daughter is in 5th grade and has at least 3 tests a year- If a certain % fail- they look to the teacher to see why? Teaching style? Poor teacher? Etc. When I was in school – almost 75% of us failed the Earth Science regents final- We had complained throughout the year that we were not learning anything (It was a new teacher)- because so many of us failed- they held a summer school in our town and we all had to retake the test- after about 1 week of classes from a different teacher- Most of us passed- I mean just passed- The school district has to know if that many students are failing or falling behind- I would request that my children be removed from his class and put into another class with a different teacher- I would also write a note into the school- signed anonymous. Maybe this would do the trick- or you could talk other parents into standing up with you and complaining. Perhaps at a school board meeting. Then you would not be the only parent with the problem.
@Gumball (793)
• United States
29 May 07
You should contact some of the other parents of kids in his class and all go to the schoolboard together. Like they say, there's strength in numbers. Take copies of the report cards of all of the failing students and whatever else you can use and present it to them. Call the school and ask when they have schoolboard meetings scheduled since they are supposed to be a public forum.
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@hockeygal4ever (10021)
• United States
30 May 07
True. I have such mixed emotions about it all... as I said above I really like him as a person and loved him as my coach but he just simply doesn't get it.
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@mlpontillo (8)
• United States
30 May 07
I'd like to start my post by commenting on the supposed "brightness" proclaimed by certain users in this post. I have to say that for being "bright," your writing lacks tone and an intelligent grammatical syntax akin to those who are "bright."
But I digress.
Honestly, I don't think there's much one can do to oust an obviously bad teacher - simply because opinions differ from person to person. Learning styles, personal preference, and past experiences all play into success rates in the classroom, I believe.
Or, if your students are taking AP Calculus B/C. That's not a fun one.
I hope everything works out to your advantage.
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@hockeygal4ever (10021)
• United States
30 May 07
I agree that often what one student finds as a great method of teaching another may find horrible but in this case because so many fail him regularly I just can't accept that this is the problem. I understand the idea and actually agree a lot. We all have different ways of learning, some are geared a bit more towards "book smart" while others are more "hands on". In this case none of the various styles are finding their needs met, or at least 75% or more are not. That just says there's more then a slight problem with how some kids learn. I think some of the kids that are getting by are actually getting by with low B's as the highest grades and these are normally kids that whiz through with straight A+ normally. So a low B, while may be very acceptable to most, for these kids it's a low grade. AND.. the low B's aren't exactly overflowing. Most that make it passing are passing with C's. So to me, again, that means that there is more of an issue then just "incompatibility".
Thanks for the comments and the thoughts. Calculus doesn't come for them until I think it's 11th grade and then... oh dear Lord I hope they don't come to me for help! LOL
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