do i have problems?

China
May 29, 2007 8:09am CST
this afternoon,I went out for shopping with my roomate,who I have lived with for almost one year.but for the whole shopping time,I felt so uneasy.It seemed both of us didn't get used to shopping with each other.Most of the time,the one keeped waiting for the other,we seemed having nothing to share.some times,I thought I needed to be more active and share my interests with her,but when i did't get the proper respone,i found it's hard to go on..... Is that any problems with me? do share your opinins.
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@jolly223 (73)
• United States
29 May 07
I usually shop by myself. Most of my friends and i have different tastes and nobody wants to hang around the dressing room while i try things on anyway.
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• Philippines
29 May 07
this is a proper decision to make if no one who can be supportive of the shopping exercises, can be found to go along. the ones we bring along whenever we go shopping, are expected to help us out on making decisions as to which ones will look best on us.
• Philippines
29 May 07
be honest with your roommate. just simply talk to her about your observations that you do not share the same interests on things as what you have noticed when you did some shopping together. then ask her opinion on some things, too. if she will still not be interested in sharing with you some thoughts on this, then next time that you decide to do some shopping, do it alone or with someone else whom you had shopped with before and, you found that you had some funtime together.
• China
1 Jun 07
yeah,it is really a good solution.I will try it out ^thanks~~