how do you keep your romance alive????
By lquiambao
@lquiambao (109)
Philippines
May 29, 2007 9:20am CST
As with most good things in life, it takes work to keep the flame of love burning. So how do you keep YOUR FLAME OF LOVE BURNING???
4 responses
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
29 May 07
When you've had a huge fight but then decide to put aside your egos,hold hands and say "I LOVE YOU" that is the real meaning of love for me..and try to appreciate all the things from your partner.
@jcmiguel24 (97)
• Philippines
29 May 07
what if your partner dont feel the infatuation,,? is that saying that you should move on because the love of your partner is already seeking out in the wild?
@lquiambao (109)
• Philippines
30 May 07
I like what you said about "putting aside your egos." That is the hardest thing to do but if the couple aims to make the relationship work, one has to humble himself/herself.
@vonne28th (1494)
• Philippines
30 May 07
If that would be,then,there would be no any other reasons why you should have to keep your love alive with him/her. It's worthless. You deserve to love,find someone who is also deserving of your love.
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@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
30 May 07
I guess its pretty hard to keep romance going in relationship...
It requires lots of effort time and management...
It requires falling in love with ur partner over and over again...
As for me, i do little surprises for him that will make him happy...
Even preparing a simple meal is good enough...
Baking a cake for him?
Doing little stuff will make him happy too...
=)
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@lquiambao (109)
• Philippines
31 May 07
Yes, it's not easy but as you say, "it requires falling in love with your partner over and over again." I also do the cooking part. I remember that when I got married, I didn't know how to cook but because of LOVE, I learned to be a "chef!" It's true that "the way to a man's heart is through cooking"
@limosonia1 (1559)
• United States
29 May 07
I always try and remember what brought us together in the first place. Trying not to take him for granted during the everyday life of raising children and work. We go out by ourselves atleast once a week to be alone and show the other person how much we enjoy being around each other. I think the little things make a big difference in relationships. Its hard but it's worth it.
@lquiambao (109)
• Philippines
30 May 07
Yeah, sometimes in our married life we get so busy that we forget that "togetherness." Even small things (a touch, a pat, a kiss) small gifts count.
@Rickrocks8 (1751)
• United States
29 May 07
Oh that's easy Vaseline....But its not for what your thinking.....You put it on the door nob it keep the kids out~! teehehhehehehhe Welcome to mylot!
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