Best Friend

Indonesia
October 23, 2006 6:41am CST
Have a best friend or be a best friend? Which one you prefer?
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37 responses
@fritz27 (1136)
• United States
23 Oct 06
that's a hard one and i think you will get lots of posts. i think, i think now...............i'd prefer to be the best friend. i love doing things for my friends, sometimes small things, sometimes big things. i think the one thing i did for a friend that i enjoy telling is a story about her daughter. the girl sings, but won't do it in public. my friend has been asking her and asking her to sing the national anthem for our home football games. both of our husbands are coaches. i talked to the girl myself and convinced her to do it without her parents knowing. i wrote out cards for both of them telling them how important they are to my husband and me. he had the one for the husband and was to give it right before she sang. since i had a prior commitment, i had another girlfiend give it to mom. it was such a huge surprise for them to hear her sing that. my husband and dad stood there on the field holding hands crying. mom tried to be the tough guy and not cry, but they both were so moved by it. it was the biggest surprise i've ever done for someone and i missed it!!!so........i like being the best friend. i can do things and it makes me feel good about myself.
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• Indonesia
23 Oct 06
Wow. I don't expect this answer. How nice your answer. I must rated it. thanks a lot for sharing as best friend...
@fritz27 (1136)
• United States
23 Oct 06
thank you................. it was nice someone else thought it was a good surprise.
@lawliiet (99)
• Taiwan
15 Nov 06
I'd prefer to /be/ a best friend, actually. It would be lovely to know that someone considers me as a 'bestest best' friend. I don't have extraordinary social skills, and it's rare for me to find good friends that I can consult with.
• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
Yup..It's lovely.. We don't need an extraordinary social skills to be a best friend. Just be yourself.. Thanks for sharing it..
@delina123 (2453)
• Canada
15 Nov 06
I think i would like to have both
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@sharon613 (2321)
• United States
15 Nov 06
My best friend lives in Queens New York
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• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
Thanks for sharing it. I appreciate it. It's cool.
• India
15 Nov 06
obviously will choose to be a best friend..
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@sun_moon (235)
• United States
15 Nov 06
i am good friend and at the same time i have so many best friends. i prefer both.
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@tareqfayyad (1674)
• United States
15 Nov 06
have a best friend...because i am face a lot of problems in my life...so i need best friend to stand with me....bye
• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
Ha..ha..I think there are some people face problems more than you, maybe one of them is your best friend. Would you be a best for your best friend? Would you hear the problems too? Thanks for sharing it. I appreciate it.
• India
15 Nov 06
My father is my best friend
• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
That's great.. I like it.. Thanks for the response..
• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
That's cool. Thanks for sharing it.
@honest007 (793)
• India
15 Nov 06
to have a best friend
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@sksingh (1411)
• Germany
15 Nov 06
be a best friend
• Indonesia
16 Nov 06
That's cool. Always be a best friend. Thanks for the response. I really appreciate it.
@kriszta (305)
• Romania
15 Nov 06
i prefer to be someone's best friend...but it wouldn't hurt having one myself
• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
Yup..It's wonderful. Thanks for the response..
• United States
15 Nov 06
be a best friend
• Indonesia
16 Nov 06
That's great. Always be a best friend. Thanks for the response. I really appreciate it.
@gnt23tr (1014)
• United States
15 Nov 06
what about =both of these.
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• India
15 Nov 06
i suggest first be a best friend to your friend then u will have a lot of best friends. This is true b'coz i got this.
• Indonesia
16 Nov 06
That's lovely..I believe it's true. Thanks for the response. Always be a best friend.
@hinaomar (1425)
• Pakistan
15 Nov 06
both r important.but if i have to choose one i would like to have a best friend.
• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
That's cool. Thanks for the response..
@raj_cool (280)
• India
15 Nov 06
have a best friend
• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
That's great. Thanks for the response.
@krizz420 (4385)
• Canada
15 Nov 06
Id rather be a bestfriend
• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
That's cool. I want to be it too.. Thanks for the response.
@Phlamingho (7825)
• Denmark
15 Nov 06
I don't think you can ask a question like that. No one can answer that they prefer to have a best friend and not be a best friend. If you act like a jerk then you wont have a best friend. So my point is, that if you yourself is not a "best friend" you wont have "a best friend"... Wow did that make any sense at all!? :-s
• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
Sometimes people think he has the best friend, but his 'best friend' never think that that people is her best friend. Btw, thanks for the response.
• India
15 Nov 06
be a best friend as "give and take"
• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
that's great..You will receive it if you are a best friend.
• India
15 Nov 06
no one
• Indonesia
15 Nov 06
Just try to be a best one than you will get one..