Is it wrong - asking ladies mostly
By delco1
@delco1 (28)
United States
6 responses
@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
30 May 07
Yes it is definitely wrong! That is cheating, and you should never do it. I think if you want to cheat on her, then you should just divorce her. Cheating is horrible, and is the quickest way to ruin a relationship.
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@6in12years (305)
• United States
29 May 07
I think it's wrong. It would be more honorable, if the marriage is not repairable, to divorce and then seek another partner.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
29 May 07
I do think that it is wrong. You married for better or for WORSE and this is probably for worse. Like someone before me suggested atleast try councilling or something and get to the bottom of the problem!
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@londongirl (207)
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30 May 07
I think its very sad that you and your wife are still so young, have you got young kids, can't you go away for a few days and try and get some romance back into the relationship? have you explained to your wife just how strongly you feel, has your wife had abusive relationships in the past? having affairs is not easy, someone always gets hurt, if there is no hope then Divorce maybe the only answer! I hope I haven't hurt your feelings delco1, I really feel for you.
@laridbz (1280)
• China
29 May 07
I don't think it's wrong. She knows you're not happy, and if you guys can't fix it, well, try to be happy any other way!
I know most people don't agree with me, but that's exactly what most men (and also many women) do, and no, they don't care about what their wives/husbands think. They only care about hiding it from their partners and to preserve their good reputation.
You're doing the same, but you're being honest. So, what's the matter?
Oh, but you gotta let her do the same if she wants to. I don't know why you're in a sexless marriage, but I guess she also misses something.
@simple_butterfly (478)
• Philippines
30 May 07
Oh well..If I'm your wife maybe I will be insane if you do that.Huhuhuhu..I think you should talk to your wife. Good communication means strong relationship. Talk to her what do you want and open up to her about anything you want on making love. You can watch X rated movies to uplift her mood on that. Take one step at a time. Don't look for something else without trying to solve your problem. Love your wife. :)
