How faith can help you overcome depression
By ghargrove
@ghargrove (14)
United States
May 29, 2007 1:51pm CST
Depression is a very old friend of mine...
Im sure many, many people you know or yourself even struggles with some type of depression. The ugliness of depression and how it will rob you of so many good things. To me I have lost a lot of my life to depression. And I am talking a good 20+ years I have lost. And this battle is always ongoing for me. I beleive that I am here today because Jesus brought me back. Most people dont talk about depression until they really hit bottom. Please dont wait that long. It is something you can not do on your own. It does take a higher power than yourself. It can take so much from you that you are not sure where to start, and being objective is the key here. Go talk to the right person. If you are a chrisitan be sure you see someone in that field, maybe a Rabbi or Priest. Make sure that you both agree on that. If your not a christian see someone outside of that. Like a counselor somewhere. Do not worry, it is not a sign of weakness to ask for help. And people will not degrade you for seeking help. Most of the time depression stems from childhood, but not always. It could be something that you have recently experienced, loss of family or friend. And having never felt depression, you may not know that your depressed. It can happen so quickly that you didnt even see it coming. Divorce can hit you hard and of course it is a life changing event. Any life changing event can cause depression. I remember a while back, my daughter of a tender age got upset when the Dallas Cowboys did not win the Superbowl, she just knew it would send me into a tail spin. She was so cute, and because she said that to me I tried to explain how not to get upset and sad. That she would forget it in time and she could always talk to me about it. She said ok and we went on from there. Yes, unfortunately my child grew up with a parent (me), suffering with severe depression. She saw a lot of sickness with me and my Mother. So she knows first hand about depression. Not to say that is bad, I just think she became aware of it very early, and I think more than hurt, it helped her as she grew up to adulthood and could recognize the difference in sadness and depression. So at a very early age it is recognized by children everywhere. If you are thinking the kids dont know, think again. They know more then you think. It will effect them now and when they become adults.
The faith came to me not very long ago. I decided to change my radio station one day. I found the top christian station where I live, and during the time of listening, Jesus spoke to me. I was shocked that it came out to me like that. I knew it had to be Jesus. He knew all my hurts of pain and depression, He told me that it was time to give it all to Him. I still am amazed today at how He pulled me out of my despair. And it was so surreal, now that I think back to how I used to be. Because of His death I am free. He took all the depression to the cross for everyone in the world. He took it from on that day, of a life changing event for me. The day I gave it ALL to Him, He gave me back my life. So by faith I was able to give it all to him. And by still hearing the songs today, I have faith the He still has it All. I am saying that my doctor was instramental at this time of my life. He still is and I take medications too. And may have to the rest of my life, but at least it is my life. The best way I have found to have and to build my faith, is to have a prayer journal, a devotional one that has insights to discover has you build up your faith. And then I would read it, as time goes by, and see how my prayers were answered. That will build your faith better then anything I have found. Sometimes people seek out help from the most faithful person they know, so you could try that and see if it would help. I do beleive God wants us to find His people, and learn from them.
Seek, Ask, Receive... It is that simple. And on my darkest days I want to be around people that have a lot of faith.
If this is read by just one person, maybe it will save their life. If it does save your life, praise His name.
3 responses
@gaminemadcap (160)
• United States
30 May 07
My mother has struggled with depression for years. I'm glad that faith has helped you through it, but I have a warning for some people: be careful who you talk to. Some preachers mean well, but they still have the mentality that "Christians don't get depression" and that "you're just not praying and believing hard enough". This mentality almost killed my mom, who was raised in the church. Fortunately, a lot of this is changing as people are becoming more aware of the reality of depression. But my advice is for people to still see a doctor. True clincal depression is an illness, and there's nothing wrong with needing medicine for it. Use your faith too--but don't be afraid to seek medical help. You wouldn't tell a person with cancer to only talk to a preacher and not a doctor--depression is the same way.
I don't want to undermine the power of prayer and faith. I believe that Jesus can deliver people from depression, just like anything else. There is such a thing as divine healing. But people must know that there is nothing wrong with them if they feel like prayer isn't helping them with their depression. All it means is that they have a true medical problem and need to seek help.
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@ghargrove (14)
• United States
30 May 07
Thank you so much for sharing about your Mother. I know first hand how the "church" can and do more damage then good. I definately know that I had to be under a doctors care, and I still am. However, if I didnt get my faith up, I would still be depressed even with the medications. Divine intervention is only part of the picture.... Blessings to you and your family always....
@Zorrogirl (1502)
• South Africa
29 May 07
i have also suffered about 12 years. i didnt know i had it until 5 years ago and i almost lost it. i thought the whole time that i was just meant to be unhappy and hate myself. i never could understand how anyone can love me. i have been on treatment these past couple of years and went for counciling. my hubby was great and to my amazement he understood and still loved me. even through all the mindless outbursts. i am still not over it.
@ghargrove (14)
• United States
30 May 07
I am so glad you responded to my words. I know how you feel, I really do. And I have to tell you this, you are a child of God.... A friend of Jesus... And nothing that you face or feel is too big or too hard for you to handle. And when you are ready to give it all to God, He will take it and you will not have to deal with it anymore. I am not sure if you got my first responce to you email, but I wanted to respond to you now.... Have faith, it is free, and it saved my life....
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
20 Oct 10
Well i had the same problem. And it took me 5 years for me to I developed positive attitude, and also i encouraged myself in all my best rather than my worst. And today yes i have a positive attitude.